"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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duffman360

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when i approach a girl i am confident, good body language, and i can speak well. But even thou i have confidence in my game i still feel nervous and i do not know why but it does not affect my game. Anyway i was wondering is this normal or is there a way to get rid of that nervous feeling.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm in the Mood

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It's absolutely normal for everybody!
The more you do it, the more comfortable you become with that nervousness.
 
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Identify the fear.
Once you do that, I will be able to give you my input.
I am 100% sure you know what you're afraid of.

Usually it falls into one or more of these categories:

1. Fear of rejection.
2. Fear of future interactions.
3. Fear of others' responses.
4. Fear of success.

Here's a quick and simple way to look at it.
If your morals are pure/or close to, then what reason do others have to look at you with disdain and disgust? There's a reason why that nice guy (not AFC) that you may know is liked by everyone. He's nice and does good. Anyone who hates him is jealous and insecure. Sames goes with the ladies. Any of your guy friends who give you **** (and mean it), are looking at a reflection of their own failures. We're all a bunch of mirrors; that's how we find self in society. I can get even more philosophical if you want so reply if you do.

In summary: if you do good, then things will be good. This doesn't guarantee success with the ladies, but you will be good. Karma does exist, but sometimes you can't see it.:rock: :woo:
 
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duffman360

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I have good news. I don't get that feeling any more after I talked to some more chicks on Saturday while I was at a concert.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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