"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Weird facial behavior on date

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Sometiems people look in the background and "lag" there.


I dont mean eyeball movement. these are quick and smooth.


However on last 2 dates (different women!) they both at least once looked in the background with semi-poker face (or emotionless face) and big eyes and just kept in that position for a moment.


its like we have a funny conversation they they instantly from smile turn to emotionless face and look with big eyes in the background.


What you think is it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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observing maybe. taking in the moment. maybe doing an emotion check in their heads.
 
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sosousage said:
Sometiems people look in the background and "lag" there.


I dont mean eyeball movement. these are quick and smooth.


However on last 2 dates (different women!) they both at least once looked in the background with semi-poker face (or emotionless face) and big eyes and just kept in that position for a moment.


its like we have a funny conversation they they instantly from smile turn to emotionless face and look with big eyes in the background.


What you think is it?
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When I go to a bar or restaurant with a female I have her sit where she's facing me and she'll have the fewest
distractions......

....I like to sit where I can see the door and people coming and going with my back to the wall.....and she sits facing me. What I like is that
ofter with a woman she might go to sit on the inside seat (back to wall) and I'll let her then say to her at the last minute "you sit there, I'll
sit her". Even the most independent of them seems to hop to it and put themselves in the other seat..She's been commanded....and she
followed like she subconsciously wants to do......compliance has been established..

The frame has been set.
 
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