"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Weird facial behavior on date

sosousage

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Sometiems people look in the background and "lag" there.


I dont mean eyeball movement. these are quick and smooth.


However on last 2 dates (different women!) they both at least once looked in the background with semi-poker face (or emotionless face) and big eyes and just kept in that position for a moment.


its like we have a funny conversation they they instantly from smile turn to emotionless face and look with big eyes in the background.


What you think is it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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observing maybe. taking in the moment. maybe doing an emotion check in their heads.
 

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Sometiems people look in the background and "lag" there.


I dont mean eyeball movement. these are quick and smooth.


However on last 2 dates (different women!) they both at least once looked in the background with semi-poker face (or emotionless face) and big eyes and just kept in that position for a moment.


its like we have a funny conversation they they instantly from smile turn to emotionless face and look with big eyes in the background.


What you think is it?
When I go to a bar or restaurant with a female I have her sit where she's facing me and she'll have the fewest
distractions......

....I like to sit where I can see the door and people coming and going with my back to the wall.....and she sits facing me. What I like is that
ofter with a woman she might go to sit on the inside seat (back to wall) and I'll let her then say to her at the last minute "you sit there, I'll
sit her". Even the most independent of them seems to hop to it and put themselves in the other seat..She's been commanded....and she
followed like she subconsciously wants to do......compliance has been established..

The frame has been set.
 
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