"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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weird date idea...

punkrockpylot

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hey guys...i post on here sometimes but not a lot, so some of you might know who i am, but anyway, heres the idea...

i am really into tattooing/piercing...

ive already got one huge tattoo my parents got me for christmas, but im going to get another this weekend...

heres the deal, ive been talking to this girl...kino, hooking up etc for about 2 months now and so i asked her to come with me...me getting a tattoo...im also gonna invite her to when i get my nipples pierced next monday...i just thought those were some kool ideas...feedback if you want...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MidwestFreek

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i dotn know of many chicks who enjoy that...but if she thinks its cool and interesting...go for it
 

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yeah...im of a different "culture" i guess you could say than most of the guys on these forums...the chicks im after are into that kind of stuff man...
 

MidwestFreek

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lol hey nothin wrong with that...i dont really have a culture...mines all over the place...lots of variety...jsut no tattoos...no piercings..yet
 

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If the girl digs it and you're going to get the tattoo and piercings anyway, why not? More interesting than going to the movies, that's for sure.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's a really good idea if she's into that stuff too, man.

Her being with you while you do something permanent to your body (well, sorta permanent) could be a pretty big turn-on. Its like "Wow he wanted me to be with him for this."

Like I said - the girl has to be kinda into this stuff for it to "work," else she might think you're a freak :p
 

MidwestFreek

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lol nothin wrong with beina freek :p
 

punkrockpylot

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Originally posted by CableLight
Her being with you while you do something permanent to your body (well, sorta permanent) could be a pretty big turn-on. Its like "Wow he wanted me to be with him for this."
yeah, she actually said that it was really kool that i asked her...

Like I said - the girl has to be kinda into this stuff for it to "work," else she might think you're a freak :p
well, i am a freak, so it dont matter...:D
 

MidwestFreek

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if she says it sounds real cool...then u wasted a lot of time asking lol...she knows more about her than we do
 

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i didnt ask...i was just throwing that out for anyone that was also into tattooing...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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im guessing your similar to me when you say a different culture, i was just wondering if you see things the same way as me when i say i like to think im the best in what i do, certain girls love people with long hair and piercings and some hate it, the ones that do are kinda narrowed down if you get what i mean, so i have the highest share in my particular market lol, this is just the way i see myself lol or the way i like to see myself, sorry if this is just babble lol
 

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I have a lot of tattoos and most of the chicks that are into me would probably pass out if they came with me to watch me get something done.

Whatever, though. I get more questions about my ears than my tattoos.
 

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Originally posted by OneByOne
im guessing your similar to me when you say a different culture, i was just wondering if you see things the same way as me when i say i like to think im the best in what i do, certain girls love people with long hair and piercings and some hate it, the ones that do are kinda narrowed down if you get what i mean, so i have the highest share in my particular market lol, this is just the way i see myself lol or the way i like to see myself, sorry if this is just babble lol
yeah man, ive got the market kinda cornered around here...there are many afc's in the same culture and a few natural dj's, but i get my share...
 
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