"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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weird date idea...

punkrockpylot

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hey guys...i post on here sometimes but not a lot, so some of you might know who i am, but anyway, heres the idea...

i am really into tattooing/piercing...

ive already got one huge tattoo my parents got me for christmas, but im going to get another this weekend...

heres the deal, ive been talking to this girl...kino, hooking up etc for about 2 months now and so i asked her to come with me...me getting a tattoo...im also gonna invite her to when i get my nipples pierced next monday...i just thought those were some kool ideas...feedback if you want...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MidwestFreek

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i dotn know of many chicks who enjoy that...but if she thinks its cool and interesting...go for it
 

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yeah...im of a different "culture" i guess you could say than most of the guys on these forums...the chicks im after are into that kind of stuff man...
 

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lol hey nothin wrong with that...i dont really have a culture...mines all over the place...lots of variety...jsut no tattoos...no piercings..yet
 

NYC Dude

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If the girl digs it and you're going to get the tattoo and piercings anyway, why not? More interesting than going to the movies, that's for sure.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's a really good idea if she's into that stuff too, man.

Her being with you while you do something permanent to your body (well, sorta permanent) could be a pretty big turn-on. Its like "Wow he wanted me to be with him for this."

Like I said - the girl has to be kinda into this stuff for it to "work," else she might think you're a freak :p
 

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lol nothin wrong with beina freek :p
 

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Originally posted by CableLight
Her being with you while you do something permanent to your body (well, sorta permanent) could be a pretty big turn-on. Its like "Wow he wanted me to be with him for this."
yeah, she actually said that it was really kool that i asked her...

Like I said - the girl has to be kinda into this stuff for it to "work," else she might think you're a freak :p
well, i am a freak, so it dont matter...:D
 

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if she says it sounds real cool...then u wasted a lot of time asking lol...she knows more about her than we do
 

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i didnt ask...i was just throwing that out for anyone that was also into tattooing...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OneByOne

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im guessing your similar to me when you say a different culture, i was just wondering if you see things the same way as me when i say i like to think im the best in what i do, certain girls love people with long hair and piercings and some hate it, the ones that do are kinda narrowed down if you get what i mean, so i have the highest share in my particular market lol, this is just the way i see myself lol or the way i like to see myself, sorry if this is just babble lol
 

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I have a lot of tattoos and most of the chicks that are into me would probably pass out if they came with me to watch me get something done.

Whatever, though. I get more questions about my ears than my tattoos.
 

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Originally posted by OneByOne
im guessing your similar to me when you say a different culture, i was just wondering if you see things the same way as me when i say i like to think im the best in what i do, certain girls love people with long hair and piercings and some hate it, the ones that do are kinda narrowed down if you get what i mean, so i have the highest share in my particular market lol, this is just the way i see myself lol or the way i like to see myself, sorry if this is just babble lol
yeah man, ive got the market kinda cornered around here...there are many afc's in the same culture and a few natural dj's, but i get my share...
 
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