"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Weird cold situation.

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2 days ago me and some friends went to a local event to have some fun.
In our group ( 6 people)there is also a girl which i have some small interest but for now I don't want to escalate with her for personal reasons, in the future maybe I'll explain why later.
Anyway with this girl i use a lot of kino , she can't breathe from laughing every time i say something funny ( only with me though) and I have noticed her holding eye contact or even checking me out all the time.

Now at the event we were always walking and behaved like there is only me and her( but i was giving attention at everyone I'm the heart of the group anyway ) until we went to a table . Every body went to take drinks except from me and the chick. I commented " now we are both alone " in a sexy voice a smile and with eye contact. I don't know what happened but i just felt a cold feeling, I didn't felt the connection we had previously and at some point it felt kinda awkward . Then I just couldn't do a move , my head and instincts were blank.
Anyway, the night afterwards went great as i had planned.

How would you react in this situation? Did i made any mistakes?
The reason I don't want to escalate yet with her is that because she is in my cycle, my family knows her family, because she was in my city for not so long and she had to go back to her place so I thought it would be a good idea to prepare the field when I visit her but the most important thing is that she caught me when I stopped looking to have a relationship or sex for this year to improve myself inside and outside.

What's your opinion about it, I'm really interested .
Sorry for the long read but I'm not so good at writing things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the self improvement will never stop but it doesn't mean you have to give up the girls dude. that was a good chance to escalate. we all miss em' from time to time. do better next time. go with your gut. do what makes you happy.
 

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amazingswayze said:
the self improvement will never stop but it doesn't mean you have to give up the girls dude. that was a good chance to escalate. we all miss em' from time to time. do better next time. go with your gut. do what makes you happy.
I have tried the same move on girls with lower interest levels and after 2 hours i was in their bed.
I forgot to mention the awkwardness came from her ( I'm very relaxed in every situation) and while we were talking till the others come I could see it that she was feeling weirdly.

You are right, embrace each moment, self improvement never ends
 
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