“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Weird cold situation.

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2 days ago me and some friends went to a local event to have some fun.
In our group ( 6 people)there is also a girl which i have some small interest but for now I don't want to escalate with her for personal reasons, in the future maybe I'll explain why later.
Anyway with this girl i use a lot of kino , she can't breathe from laughing every time i say something funny ( only with me though) and I have noticed her holding eye contact or even checking me out all the time.

Now at the event we were always walking and behaved like there is only me and her( but i was giving attention at everyone I'm the heart of the group anyway ) until we went to a table . Every body went to take drinks except from me and the chick. I commented " now we are both alone " in a sexy voice a smile and with eye contact. I don't know what happened but i just felt a cold feeling, I didn't felt the connection we had previously and at some point it felt kinda awkward . Then I just couldn't do a move , my head and instincts were blank.
Anyway, the night afterwards went great as i had planned.

How would you react in this situation? Did i made any mistakes?
The reason I don't want to escalate yet with her is that because she is in my cycle, my family knows her family, because she was in my city for not so long and she had to go back to her place so I thought it would be a good idea to prepare the field when I visit her but the most important thing is that she caught me when I stopped looking to have a relationship or sex for this year to improve myself inside and outside.

What's your opinion about it, I'm really interested .
Sorry for the long read but I'm not so good at writing things.
 

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the self improvement will never stop but it doesn't mean you have to give up the girls dude. that was a good chance to escalate. we all miss em' from time to time. do better next time. go with your gut. do what makes you happy.
 

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amazingswayze said:
the self improvement will never stop but it doesn't mean you have to give up the girls dude. that was a good chance to escalate. we all miss em' from time to time. do better next time. go with your gut. do what makes you happy.
I have tried the same move on girls with lower interest levels and after 2 hours i was in their bed.
I forgot to mention the awkwardness came from her ( I'm very relaxed in every situation) and while we were talking till the others come I could see it that she was feeling weirdly.

You are right, embrace each moment, self improvement never ends
 
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