"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I finally "asked" this girl out, or whatever you would call this:

"Hey, (anonymous), what are you doing this weekend?"
*Smiles* "I don't know, why?"
"I was wondering if you wanted to do something this weekend."
"Yeah, sure."
"Okay."
*Friend calls her*
"We'll talk about it more tomorrow."
"Okay," I say. "See ya."

...Now what? Do I bring it up tomorrow at school? I'm done with one step, and now I've got a totally different problem
:( but at least I finally asked her :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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***UPDATE***
She obviously didn't take it as a date; she didn't even ask about the weekend. I must've sounded like "just hanging out".

I am SO mad at myself about this. What do I do now? Should I bring it up? Reclarify? I have no idea.
 
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:rolleyes: comon man....
this is simple.


Say would you like to go see ----name of movie---- at ----time--- with me on ----day-----.
IN PERSON.

Then call to confirm the day before. and don't be sucha submissive women. MAN UP! Watch Gladiator or something.
 
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Originally posted by Void
:rolleyes: comon man....
this is simple.


Say would you like to go see ----name of movie---- at ----time--- with me on ----day-----.
IN PERSON.

Then call to confirm the day before. and don't be sucha submissive women. MAN UP! Watch Gladiator or something.
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:D :D :D
 
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This is how the conversation should have gone...

"Hey, (anonymous), what are you doing this weekend?"

Biker's way: "Do you have anything exciting planned this weekend?"

*Smiles* "I don't know, why?"

"I was wondering if you wanted to do something this weekend."

Biker's way: "you do now. Give me your number so I can get directions to your house"


Get what I'm saying? You have to be a little bit more exciting then 'i was wondering....'. Argh, nothing will turn a girl off quicker then that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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haha nice 1 biker but thats a bit to much, first line i like, second line, could end up sounding bad.

Keep the "you do now" bit, but say "because your going out with me this weekend" rather then so i can get directions to your house.

EDIT: 1 problem is, if you ask her is she doing anytihng exciting its quite probable she will just tell you her plans meaning your second line will not fit in, so how could you recover that? say she says i might go out with a freind or somthing, i mean you cant tell her thats not exciting because you would be dissing her.
 
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first line i like, second line, could end up sounding bad.

come on man, that was some of my best stuff!! LOL :D
 
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