"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I finally "asked" this girl out, or whatever you would call this:

"Hey, (anonymous), what are you doing this weekend?"
*Smiles* "I don't know, why?"
"I was wondering if you wanted to do something this weekend."
"Yeah, sure."
"Okay."
*Friend calls her*
"We'll talk about it more tomorrow."
"Okay," I say. "See ya."

...Now what? Do I bring it up tomorrow at school? I'm done with one step, and now I've got a totally different problem
:( but at least I finally asked her :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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***UPDATE***
She obviously didn't take it as a date; she didn't even ask about the weekend. I must've sounded like "just hanging out".

I am SO mad at myself about this. What do I do now? Should I bring it up? Reclarify? I have no idea.
 
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:rolleyes: comon man....
this is simple.


Say would you like to go see ----name of movie---- at ----time--- with me on ----day-----.
IN PERSON.

Then call to confirm the day before. and don't be sucha submissive women. MAN UP! Watch Gladiator or something.
 
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Originally posted by Void
:rolleyes: comon man....
this is simple.


Say would you like to go see ----name of movie---- at ----time--- with me on ----day-----.
IN PERSON.

Then call to confirm the day before. and don't be sucha submissive women. MAN UP! Watch Gladiator or something.
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:D :D :D
 
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This is how the conversation should have gone...

"Hey, (anonymous), what are you doing this weekend?"

Biker's way: "Do you have anything exciting planned this weekend?"

*Smiles* "I don't know, why?"

"I was wondering if you wanted to do something this weekend."

Biker's way: "you do now. Give me your number so I can get directions to your house"


Get what I'm saying? You have to be a little bit more exciting then 'i was wondering....'. Argh, nothing will turn a girl off quicker then that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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haha nice 1 biker but thats a bit to much, first line i like, second line, could end up sounding bad.

Keep the "you do now" bit, but say "because your going out with me this weekend" rather then so i can get directions to your house.

EDIT: 1 problem is, if you ask her is she doing anytihng exciting its quite probable she will just tell you her plans meaning your second line will not fit in, so how could you recover that? say she says i might go out with a freind or somthing, i mean you cant tell her thats not exciting because you would be dissing her.
 
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first line i like, second line, could end up sounding bad.

come on man, that was some of my best stuff!! LOL :D
 
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