Last night I hung out with this girl, had a great time, girl was really into me. We have tons of drinks then her and my friend and the girls cousin go back to her house. That's when things got weird. As soon as we get there she went cold. It was so weird and I am baffled to say the least. I don't think it was a turn off as much as she didn't feel comfortable hooking up with a guy in front of her cousin? Does that make sense. Anyway, being the drunken ******* I am I got a little pissed b/c we passed my hotel and I had to call a cab for a ride home. When the cab got there she wanted a hug and I just looked at her and said "right" and laughed. Could it have been a mix of alcohol and her cousin being there? I'm thinking of calling her again b/c I'm in her town until Friday.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Weird Chick Last Night
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