"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Weird Case of Oneitis.

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From a previous thread, I discussed the possiblity of being friends with a girl that has a boyfriend. After reading everyone's prospective, I decided I'd continue to be friends with this girl even though I wanted to fvck her.

During this time, I have continued to spin plates, however, I still want this girl. No matter how many different girls I fvck, at the end of the day, I'm still thinking about this girl.

Is there any solution to this problem? I'm half tempted to just fvck her and go against everything I once believed (I didn't want to be "that guy" trying to bang a chick who has a b/f). I honestly just want some peace of mind, and like I said earlier, spinning plates hasn't necessarily worked out like I thought it would.

On a side note, I would just stop talking to her but I can't, she's in two of my classes.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone???
 
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I'm no expert, but i think i read in here before to imagine her getting gang banged by a bunch of ruthless 10+ inchers. Or her current bf doin' it.

Or, what I do, remind yourself that you can do better and maintain your life so you actually do, do better.

If you stopped being such close friends with her, maybe this wouldn't be such a problem. I think you need to keep her at much greater than arm's length. More like out-of-sight. Just my obs.
 
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JMoneyINC. said:
I'm half tempted to just fvck her and go against everything I once believed (I didn't want to be "that guy" trying to bang a chick who has a b/f). I honestly just want some peace of mind, ...
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Your life is about you, not about other people.
 
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You both make great points, thanks a lot for help.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HariPoter13 said:
Your life is about you, not about other people.
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That's right. Because we all live on deserted islands with no one else around.
 
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Alle_Gory said:
That's right. Because we all live on deserted islands with no one else around.
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Hahaha another great point.
 
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