"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Weird Case of Oneitis.

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From a previous thread, I discussed the possiblity of being friends with a girl that has a boyfriend. After reading everyone's prospective, I decided I'd continue to be friends with this girl even though I wanted to fvck her.

During this time, I have continued to spin plates, however, I still want this girl. No matter how many different girls I fvck, at the end of the day, I'm still thinking about this girl.

Is there any solution to this problem? I'm half tempted to just fvck her and go against everything I once believed (I didn't want to be "that guy" trying to bang a chick who has a b/f). I honestly just want some peace of mind, and like I said earlier, spinning plates hasn't necessarily worked out like I thought it would.

On a side note, I would just stop talking to her but I can't, she's in two of my classes.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyone???
 
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I'm no expert, but i think i read in here before to imagine her getting gang banged by a bunch of ruthless 10+ inchers. Or her current bf doin' it.

Or, what I do, remind yourself that you can do better and maintain your life so you actually do, do better.

If you stopped being such close friends with her, maybe this wouldn't be such a problem. I think you need to keep her at much greater than arm's length. More like out-of-sight. Just my obs.
 
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I'm half tempted to just fvck her and go against everything I once believed (I didn't want to be "that guy" trying to bang a chick who has a b/f). I honestly just want some peace of mind, ...
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Your life is about you, not about other people.
 
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You both make great points, thanks a lot for help.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HariPoter13 said:
Your life is about you, not about other people.
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That's right. Because we all live on deserted islands with no one else around.
 
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Alle_Gory said:
That's right. Because we all live on deserted islands with no one else around.
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Hahaha another great point.
 
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