"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Weird ass coincidence or? To everyone who's dated an AW

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To the guys that have dated and had problems with attention wh0res and/or women that seemed to have BPD, do you know what their sign was?

My ex was a Gemini and I've noticed 90% of the women on dating sites are geminis and their traits are VERY similar to what I experienced and they seem to always be on these dating sites no matter how much time passes.

Maybe a new rule is for us guys to avoid women born under this sign? Very interested in knowing if the women who are giving the most problems and causing guys to post are Gemini women.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just read up on ESFP personality types. I think this was what my ex was. The thing that really stood out was this:

"People with this personality type are often the first to help someone talk out a challenging problem, happily providing emotional support and practical advice. However, if the problem is about them, ESFPs are more likely to avoid a conflict altogether than to address it head-on. ESFPs usually love a little drama and passion, but not so much when they are the focus of the criticisms it can bring."

Noticed that in multiple ways during the relationship and the most evident was how things ended with us. Pretty interesting.
 

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I can't imagine these types will ever be in a healthy relationship? Or at least a long term one
 

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If the girl grew up in a western civilization such as the USA or UK than you are bound to have issues.
 

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SeeThruIt said:
Maybe a new rule is for us guys to avoid women born under this sign?
No. Confusing cause and correlation. You have been burnt by a gemini, so the sign triggers your trauma. But being an $$hole is a personality trait, not a function of nationality, profession or astrological sign.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moroder said:
No. Confusing cause and correlation. You have been burnt by a gemini, so the sign triggers your trauma. But being an $$hole is a personality trait, not a function of nationality, profession or astrological sign.
True. There are psycho chicks born during every month. Don't avoid Gemini's...learn to recognize the signs of a crazy girl early on and don't get involved with them. :up:
 

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That's very weird. I just got done with an AW, and after reading your post I was curious so I went and checked. Yup, she's a Gemini. What's even stranger is she's obsessed with astrology, remembers everyone's birthdates and what not, checks horoscopes etc...
 

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If you look up Gemini female personalities they all say they're pretty much the hardest of the signs to keep long term. They're an air sign which means they're always wandering and very indecisive.
 
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