"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Weird ass coincidence or? To everyone who's dated an AW

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To the guys that have dated and had problems with attention wh0res and/or women that seemed to have BPD, do you know what their sign was?

My ex was a Gemini and I've noticed 90% of the women on dating sites are geminis and their traits are VERY similar to what I experienced and they seem to always be on these dating sites no matter how much time passes.

Maybe a new rule is for us guys to avoid women born under this sign? Very interested in knowing if the women who are giving the most problems and causing guys to post are Gemini women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just read up on ESFP personality types. I think this was what my ex was. The thing that really stood out was this:

"People with this personality type are often the first to help someone talk out a challenging problem, happily providing emotional support and practical advice. However, if the problem is about them, ESFPs are more likely to avoid a conflict altogether than to address it head-on. ESFPs usually love a little drama and passion, but not so much when they are the focus of the criticisms it can bring."

Noticed that in multiple ways during the relationship and the most evident was how things ended with us. Pretty interesting.
 

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I can't imagine these types will ever be in a healthy relationship? Or at least a long term one
 

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If the girl grew up in a western civilization such as the USA or UK than you are bound to have issues.
 

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SeeThruIt said:
Maybe a new rule is for us guys to avoid women born under this sign?
No. Confusing cause and correlation. You have been burnt by a gemini, so the sign triggers your trauma. But being an $$hole is a personality trait, not a function of nationality, profession or astrological sign.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Moroder said:
No. Confusing cause and correlation. You have been burnt by a gemini, so the sign triggers your trauma. But being an $$hole is a personality trait, not a function of nationality, profession or astrological sign.
True. There are psycho chicks born during every month. Don't avoid Gemini's...learn to recognize the signs of a crazy girl early on and don't get involved with them. :up:
 

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That's very weird. I just got done with an AW, and after reading your post I was curious so I went and checked. Yup, she's a Gemini. What's even stranger is she's obsessed with astrology, remembers everyone's birthdates and what not, checks horoscopes etc...
 

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If you look up Gemini female personalities they all say they're pretty much the hardest of the signs to keep long term. They're an air sign which means they're always wandering and very indecisive.
 
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