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Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

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its more for your mind, the way you see yourself have a hell of influence on your life, if you are not happy it will influence you in not a good way. like @Atom Smasher said, it was more in your head then really the extra weight.

kinda when I raise my strenght, I was never weak, but there was somethings was harder to do, after that it boosted my confidence a little and that did help in some cases
To some extent it's mental, but in general, men over 20% and under 10% BMI tend to become more estrogenic. The Hormonal balance sweet spot for most men is somewhere between 10 and 20 %.
 

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I'm probably 104% body fat.

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My dudes,

I said I had gone but youI couldn’t keep away!

I posted probably about a year ago about libido plummeting in late 30s. I was also very overweight.

The doctor tested my T and it was in range. A lot here said weight is a big factor.

Well, I lost near 30lb and boy, is it back!

I was almost completely dead. I had to really concentrate to get in the mood, I was almost “grossed out” by secks for a while. I was taking Viag when I went too long without it.

Now, most of the weight lost. Actually feeling spontaneously in the mood. No issues with the “rigidity” of my guy either.

All I’m saying, is if you’re carrying pounds and want a better secks life....my word, lose some. A lot of guys and the doctor seemed to think it’s a weak link. Not for me. The more I lost, the better it’s been.
So good in fact after having our daughter there’s a strong chance after the last few days we have another little one coming....leave that to the Gods.
As the doctor said "weight" ( actually body fat ) makes a huge difference.
 

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As the doctor said "weight" ( actually body fat ) makes a huge difference.
I get that but for most men who are overweight, weight is a good thing to target and only when at reasonable BF does the focus need to be on BF

if you’re obese, you shouldn’t be recomping and absolutely should see the scale as a good nay infallible proxy for body fat
 

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I get that but for most men who are overweight, weight is a good thing to target and only when at reasonable BF does the focus need to be on BF

if you’re obese, you shouldn’t be recomping and absolutely should see the scale as a good nay infallible proxy for body fat
True. For each height there is a range of acceptable weights and this "big boned" bull is just that, bull.
 

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True. For each height there is a range of acceptable weights and this "big boned" bull is just that, bull.
hang on, my mum said I am big boned.

are you calling her a liar?
 

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hang on, my mum said I am big boned.

are you calling her a liar?
No I'm not... "Big boned" is normally an excuse someone has from not leaning out as much as they can. An excuse to stay fat.
 
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No I'm not... "Big boned" is normally an excuse someone has from not leaning out as much as they can. An excuse to stay fat.
my mum said I’m big boned and also I’m special, I’m the most handsome boy on the street and anyone who disagrees is a nasty mwan.
I’m driving over to see her now to tell her what you said. I’m in tears here.
 

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my mum said I’m big boned and also I’m special, I’m the most handsome boy on the street and anyone who disagrees is a nasty mwan.
I’m driving over to see her now to tell her what you said. I’m in tears here.
Just get to fvcking champ...
 
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