"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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weekend problem?

alphaNot

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is it okey that ill go out this weekend rather than staying at home
watching movies while not spending money, or going out while spending money?
because for an alpha male he must concentrate to become succesful in life, so
he'll just stay at home, saving his energy for work tomorrow?

because i have my portfolio project on-going and its not yet finished,
but too much good makes it bad, they say.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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alphaNot said:
because for an alpha male he must concentrate to become succesful in life, so he'll just stay at home, saving his energy for work tomorrow?
Having an incredible work ethic doesnt mean depriving yourself of fun.

Sure, some guys would rather stay in then go out when certain things needs accomplished and certain guys would still go out. As long as the work gets done when it needs to be done.....it doesnt matter.
 

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As the saying goes 'all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy'. All in moderation.
 

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TheException said:
Having an incredible work ethic doesnt mean depriving yourself of fun.

Sure, some guys would rather stay in then go out when certain things needs accomplished and certain guys would still go out. As long as the work gets done when it needs to be done.....it doesnt matter.

but you wasted a money from it, during weekend?
 

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All you guys are focusing too much on what being an "alpha" is. Just go out and do your own sh!t and be confident in what you do. Because that's what an alpha does. Alpha's don't go around worrying if what they are doing is not "alpha" enough. They do what they want, that's what makes them an alpha. Guys like Clint Eastwood and John Wayne acted alpha in their movies. They didn't give a sh!t and they didn't take sh!t. That's the attitude you need. There's no correct way to say that you're an alpha. Be a leader and get the results you want. That's being an alpha dude.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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