"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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weekend problem?

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is it okey that ill go out this weekend rather than staying at home
watching movies while not spending money, or going out while spending money?
because for an alpha male he must concentrate to become succesful in life, so
he'll just stay at home, saving his energy for work tomorrow?

because i have my portfolio project on-going and its not yet finished,
but too much good makes it bad, they say.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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alphaNot said:
because for an alpha male he must concentrate to become succesful in life, so he'll just stay at home, saving his energy for work tomorrow?
Having an incredible work ethic doesnt mean depriving yourself of fun.

Sure, some guys would rather stay in then go out when certain things needs accomplished and certain guys would still go out. As long as the work gets done when it needs to be done.....it doesnt matter.
 

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As the saying goes 'all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy'. All in moderation.
 

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TheException said:
Having an incredible work ethic doesnt mean depriving yourself of fun.

Sure, some guys would rather stay in then go out when certain things needs accomplished and certain guys would still go out. As long as the work gets done when it needs to be done.....it doesnt matter.

but you wasted a money from it, during weekend?
 

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All you guys are focusing too much on what being an "alpha" is. Just go out and do your own sh!t and be confident in what you do. Because that's what an alpha does. Alpha's don't go around worrying if what they are doing is not "alpha" enough. They do what they want, that's what makes them an alpha. Guys like Clint Eastwood and John Wayne acted alpha in their movies. They didn't give a sh!t and they didn't take sh!t. That's the attitude you need. There's no correct way to say that you're an alpha. Be a leader and get the results you want. That's being an alpha dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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