"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Week versus Weekend at the bars/clubs

Xericx

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I'm under the impression that the weekdays are better for going out to meet women. Setting aside the Friday happy hour, which is easy pickings, the weekends are filled with two many guys, "girls nights out", and what not. Pretention is the rule not the exception.

Weekdays on the other hand, are very relaxed. The locals and hardcore partyin' girls are out those nights...esp. Thursdays. Good drink specials, theme nights, and overall...I have more fun...sucks that work is the next day, but you only live once...

I guess that's just in the major cities where there options on the weekdays.

What are your expereinces in this regard?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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All you will find during the week are middle-aged women who came to get their daily fix of alcohol after a long, hard day of work. Weekends are more challenging, but the quality is better.
 

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Its usually dead around here where I live, even on Fridays! The only real good day is Saturday and depending if its a bank holiday, Sunday.
 

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
All you will find during the week are middle-aged women who came to get their daily fix of alcohol after a long, hard day of work. Weekends are more challenging, but the quality is better.
Well, not if you live near a big college. Thursdays have always been awesome...people tend to "go home" on the weekends.
 
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