"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Week versus Weekend at the bars/clubs

Xericx

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I'm under the impression that the weekdays are better for going out to meet women. Setting aside the Friday happy hour, which is easy pickings, the weekends are filled with two many guys, "girls nights out", and what not. Pretention is the rule not the exception.

Weekdays on the other hand, are very relaxed. The locals and hardcore partyin' girls are out those nights...esp. Thursdays. Good drink specials, theme nights, and overall...I have more fun...sucks that work is the next day, but you only live once...

I guess that's just in the major cities where there options on the weekdays.

What are your expereinces in this regard?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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All you will find during the week are middle-aged women who came to get their daily fix of alcohol after a long, hard day of work. Weekends are more challenging, but the quality is better.
 

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Its usually dead around here where I live, even on Fridays! The only real good day is Saturday and depending if its a bank holiday, Sunday.
 

Xericx

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
All you will find during the week are middle-aged women who came to get their daily fix of alcohol after a long, hard day of work. Weekends are more challenging, but the quality is better.
Well, not if you live near a big college. Thursdays have always been awesome...people tend to "go home" on the weekends.
 
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