"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Week versus Weekend at the bars/clubs

Xericx

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I'm under the impression that the weekdays are better for going out to meet women. Setting aside the Friday happy hour, which is easy pickings, the weekends are filled with two many guys, "girls nights out", and what not. Pretention is the rule not the exception.

Weekdays on the other hand, are very relaxed. The locals and hardcore partyin' girls are out those nights...esp. Thursdays. Good drink specials, theme nights, and overall...I have more fun...sucks that work is the next day, but you only live once...

I guess that's just in the major cities where there options on the weekdays.

What are your expereinces in this regard?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All you will find during the week are middle-aged women who came to get their daily fix of alcohol after a long, hard day of work. Weekends are more challenging, but the quality is better.
 

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Its usually dead around here where I live, even on Fridays! The only real good day is Saturday and depending if its a bank holiday, Sunday.
 

Xericx

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
All you will find during the week are middle-aged women who came to get their daily fix of alcohol after a long, hard day of work. Weekends are more challenging, but the quality is better.
Well, not if you live near a big college. Thursdays have always been awesome...people tend to "go home" on the weekends.
 
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