Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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styles07

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Hey it's styles again at the end of my first week of boot camp. Well it took me more than a couple outings to get 50 hellos/smiles but it's done. I'm gonna start reading week two tonight. It was an interesting exercise on people in general as you might imagine not all the hellos were hotties. It's actually a challenge to make eye contact with most attractive women and really people in general. There were a few surprises here and there. It's funny how a hot chick smiling back can add a little confidence. I got to the point where I'd say hi and catch myself from saying the number of the hi right after, like hi...34, hey...35...haha.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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musclyjerk

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Hey Styles - say the number sometimes, who cares? :)

Say "Hi 34!" or "Hey 35" - leave them puzzled and thinking about what that guy meant all day and walk off laughing to yourself.

It will help get you in to the mind-state of not caring what they think and saying what you want - for your enjoyment and reasons.

Enjoy and continue the good work!

The Muscly Jerk
 
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