"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Week 2: HSDJBC/ Contest

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HSDJBC/ Contest

Week 2:

Well, it’s that time again, time for week 2. Let me start off by saying if you did not follow through or do week 1 DO NOT attempt week 2. Remember good things come in time, you just can’t skip middle school and go straight to high school. Also remember to POST!

I know your all thinking “Smooth, when’s the contest thing coming?” it will come at week 3 or 4 ( haven’t decided yet). It’s a little fun competition for all us HSDJ’s.

By now at least your should have: 1) phone number for every class that you have.2) You should have approached a freshman girl every lunch and break. 3) You should have gotten 3 rejections.

This week I admit is challenging, you will need to grab your balls and just do it. We will be approaching, getting numbers for real, and using all of our techniques.

ASSIGNEMENT WEEK #2:

1) You have 1 number for every class you have. Lets say it is 6. You will call up all 6 girls, all back to back in one night. You will ask what the homework was and practice your phone skills.

Example:
You: Hey Jenny this is _____
Her: Hey ____
You: I don’t remember the homework for English. You know I was going to call the cutest girl but then I decided not to, then I was going to call the ugliest, but I decided not to, so then I called your for a reason I cant disclose.
Her: OMG TELL ME
You: I cant its too interesting and besides it would hurt your virgin ears.

Do this for all 6 back to back. This will help your become more comfortable talking to them and it will improve your phone game.

2) Get 7 numbers by the end of the week of freshman girls. Approach girls alone rather than with friends, we need to build up to group approaches. ( next week we will call these numbers and set up dates)

3) Lastly I want you guys to get to get rejected a total of 3 times again., sorry lol it has to be done, I want u guys to become immune to rejection.

4) On girls that sit near you chat them up, use a little kino in class (people will think your weird if you use too much) c&f them, tease them.

Before you do any of the assignments read these articles:

Great article on a variety of tings:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80214

Approaching Help:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096

Closing:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16267

Peace Out




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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sweet man, I'm totally psyched about starting school now...I hope just don't get my hopes up. :p
I'll be starting school in acouple weeks....
how about you?

:)
 

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Im starting tommorow, start with WEEK 1, this is just for those who started early. MOSt of us start WEEK 1 tommorow. Good luck man! Too bad u still got a couple of weeks, at least u can learn from our mistakes!



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[]D [] []V[] []D

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I really like this HSDJBC but im not too sure on the setting up dates with freshman. It would kinda sink me to their level, if anyone knows what i mean...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
I really like this HSDJBC but im not too sure on the setting up dates with freshman. It would kinda sink me to their level, if anyone knows what i mean...


I was thinking the same thing. I'm not into robbing the cradle like that if you know what I mean.
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
I was thinking the same thing. I'm not into robbing the cradle like that if you know what I mean.

OK OK....enough protest you dont have to do it with a freshman girl but I advise to because they are new and are more accepting. Be sure to do all the assigments though. Start at week one POST POST POST



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Yo I think I might drop out. lol. Well for one, my game is designed differently. Umm I already am the greatest. I already have tons of Homework, and this feels like more.

Don't think I am a coward though. I already approach tons of girls, and am working slowly. But yeah I really have way too much Homework, which I should be doing instead of posting. But if anything miracelous happens, I will tell you all.

Sorry bout this. :( :( :(
 

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I'm out

school starts tommorrow but I enterred a new school, made me take a test, my results sucked I'm supposed to be in junior but my results equalled those of a freshman, I'm doing sophomore again and if my grades don't improve then I will be put on probation for the rest of the year and I definitely don't want that,

I will still talk to girls, honestly I am already better than average with girls compared to other hs guys, so some very serious studying should only do me well...

also the hs principle wants me to get involved in clubs such as the environment club and helping orphans...

anyways sorry I couldn't join, had no choice since I desperately need to get better grades
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Yo I think I might drop out. lol. Well for one, my game is designed differently. Umm I already am the greatest. I already have tons of Homework, and this feels like more.

Don't think I am a coward though. I already approach tons of girls, and am working slowly. But yeah I really have way too much Homework, which I should be doing instead of posting. But if anything miracelous happens, I will tell you all.

Sorry bout this. :( :( :(
I SMELL BULL****
 

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**** you, kulowiper.

The main reason of the HSDJChallenge, is to gain some experience.

I can get experience without it. Keeping my grades up is actually a goal of mine, and like I said, my game is designed differently.

Go read the bible.
 

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Seems interesting, hardest part about this is the rejection process because you know girls hardly ever turn down something this good.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Seems interesting, hardest part about this is the rejection process because you know girls hardly ever turn down something this good.
Thats what I like to hear. Some good ol' confidence.



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Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
 

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
I really like this HSDJBC but im not too sure on the setting up dates with freshman. It would kinda sink me to their level, if anyone knows what i mean...


Well, how about, if you're a senior this year (I will be), you can include sophomore girls in that.




And also, Smooth Player, for the rejections, do you want us to intentionally do AFC stuff so that we will definitely get rejected? Because that seems like a waste of an opportunity to get with a hot girl you could normally have a shot at getting. Unless it's just a random girl at the mall or something.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Well, how about, if you're a senior this year (I will be), you can include sophomore girls in that.




And also, Smooth Player, for the rejections, do you want us to intentionally do AFC stuff so that we will definitely get rejected? Because that seems like a waste of an opportunity to get with a hot girl you could normally have a shot at getting. Unless it's just a random girl at the mall or something.
Yeah i agree, you can include sophmore girls since ur a senior, im a junior.

For the rejections if do an approach as often as mentioned in the Week 2 assignment, your bound to get a girl who doesnt dig you, so when u feel that she doesnt dig you ask for a number or something intead of nexting her. Thats how Im getting my rejections




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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Yeah i agree, you can include sophmore girls since ur a senior, im a junior.

For the rejections if do an approach as often as mentioned in the Week 2 assignment, your bound to get a girl who doesnt dig you, so when u feel that she doesnt dig you ask for a number or something intead of nexting her. Thats how Im getting my rejections




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Alright, that makes sense. I'm going to do this once school starts for me. I've still got a few more weeks though.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056


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^^^^^^^^^^^that makes me laugh every time i see it.

lmao.

For some reason I just don't feel like I need to go on sosuave on anymore. A new revelation made to me yesterday.
 

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Originally posted by Void
^^^^^^^^^^^that makes me laugh every time i see it.

lmao.

For some reason I just don't feel like I need to go on sosuave on anymore. A new revelation made to me yesterday.
Whats the revelation?
 

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Originally posted by Void
^^^^^^^^^^^that makes me laugh every time i see it.

lmao.

For some reason I just don't feel like I need to go on sosuave on anymore. A new revelation made to me yesterday.
Wow you agree with me?

For some reason, I don't need sosuave for help. Could be because I never have problems anymore. lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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