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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Week 2: HSDJBC/ Contest

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HSDJBC/ Contest

Week 2:

Well, it’s that time again, time for week 2. Let me start off by saying if you did not follow through or do week 1 DO NOT attempt week 2. Remember good things come in time, you just can’t skip middle school and go straight to high school. Also remember to POST!

I know your all thinking “Smooth, when’s the contest thing coming?” it will come at week 3 or 4 ( haven’t decided yet). It’s a little fun competition for all us HSDJ’s.

By now at least your should have: 1) phone number for every class that you have.2) You should have approached a freshman girl every lunch and break. 3) You should have gotten 3 rejections.

This week I admit is challenging, you will need to grab your balls and just do it. We will be approaching, getting numbers for real, and using all of our techniques.

ASSIGNEMENT WEEK #2:

1) You have 1 number for every class you have. Lets say it is 6. You will call up all 6 girls, all back to back in one night. You will ask what the homework was and practice your phone skills.

Example:
You: Hey Jenny this is _____
Her: Hey ____
You: I don’t remember the homework for English. You know I was going to call the cutest girl but then I decided not to, then I was going to call the ugliest, but I decided not to, so then I called your for a reason I cant disclose.
Her: OMG TELL ME
You: I cant its too interesting and besides it would hurt your virgin ears.

Do this for all 6 back to back. This will help your become more comfortable talking to them and it will improve your phone game.

2) Get 7 numbers by the end of the week of freshman girls. Approach girls alone rather than with friends, we need to build up to group approaches. ( next week we will call these numbers and set up dates)

3) Lastly I want you guys to get to get rejected a total of 3 times again., sorry lol it has to be done, I want u guys to become immune to rejection.

4) On girls that sit near you chat them up, use a little kino in class (people will think your weird if you use too much) c&f them, tease them.

Before you do any of the assignments read these articles:

Great article on a variety of tings:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80214

Approaching Help:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096

Closing:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16267

Peace Out




- Smooth Player 056 -
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

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Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sweet man, I'm totally psyched about starting school now...I hope just don't get my hopes up. :p
I'll be starting school in acouple weeks....
how about you?

:)
 

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Im starting tommorow, start with WEEK 1, this is just for those who started early. MOSt of us start WEEK 1 tommorow. Good luck man! Too bad u still got a couple of weeks, at least u can learn from our mistakes!



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[]D [] []V[] []D

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I really like this HSDJBC but im not too sure on the setting up dates with freshman. It would kinda sink me to their level, if anyone knows what i mean...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
I really like this HSDJBC but im not too sure on the setting up dates with freshman. It would kinda sink me to their level, if anyone knows what i mean...


I was thinking the same thing. I'm not into robbing the cradle like that if you know what I mean.
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
I was thinking the same thing. I'm not into robbing the cradle like that if you know what I mean.

OK OK....enough protest you dont have to do it with a freshman girl but I advise to because they are new and are more accepting. Be sure to do all the assigments though. Start at week one POST POST POST



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Yo I think I might drop out. lol. Well for one, my game is designed differently. Umm I already am the greatest. I already have tons of Homework, and this feels like more.

Don't think I am a coward though. I already approach tons of girls, and am working slowly. But yeah I really have way too much Homework, which I should be doing instead of posting. But if anything miracelous happens, I will tell you all.

Sorry bout this. :( :( :(
 

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I'm out

school starts tommorrow but I enterred a new school, made me take a test, my results sucked I'm supposed to be in junior but my results equalled those of a freshman, I'm doing sophomore again and if my grades don't improve then I will be put on probation for the rest of the year and I definitely don't want that,

I will still talk to girls, honestly I am already better than average with girls compared to other hs guys, so some very serious studying should only do me well...

also the hs principle wants me to get involved in clubs such as the environment club and helping orphans...

anyways sorry I couldn't join, had no choice since I desperately need to get better grades
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Yo I think I might drop out. lol. Well for one, my game is designed differently. Umm I already am the greatest. I already have tons of Homework, and this feels like more.

Don't think I am a coward though. I already approach tons of girls, and am working slowly. But yeah I really have way too much Homework, which I should be doing instead of posting. But if anything miracelous happens, I will tell you all.

Sorry bout this. :( :( :(
I SMELL BULL****
 

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**** you, kulowiper.

The main reason of the HSDJChallenge, is to gain some experience.

I can get experience without it. Keeping my grades up is actually a goal of mine, and like I said, my game is designed differently.

Go read the bible.
 

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Seems interesting, hardest part about this is the rejection process because you know girls hardly ever turn down something this good.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Seems interesting, hardest part about this is the rejection process because you know girls hardly ever turn down something this good.
Thats what I like to hear. Some good ol' confidence.



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Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
 

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
I really like this HSDJBC but im not too sure on the setting up dates with freshman. It would kinda sink me to their level, if anyone knows what i mean...


Well, how about, if you're a senior this year (I will be), you can include sophomore girls in that.




And also, Smooth Player, for the rejections, do you want us to intentionally do AFC stuff so that we will definitely get rejected? Because that seems like a waste of an opportunity to get with a hot girl you could normally have a shot at getting. Unless it's just a random girl at the mall or something.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Well, how about, if you're a senior this year (I will be), you can include sophomore girls in that.




And also, Smooth Player, for the rejections, do you want us to intentionally do AFC stuff so that we will definitely get rejected? Because that seems like a waste of an opportunity to get with a hot girl you could normally have a shot at getting. Unless it's just a random girl at the mall or something.
Yeah i agree, you can include sophmore girls since ur a senior, im a junior.

For the rejections if do an approach as often as mentioned in the Week 2 assignment, your bound to get a girl who doesnt dig you, so when u feel that she doesnt dig you ask for a number or something intead of nexting her. Thats how Im getting my rejections




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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Yeah i agree, you can include sophmore girls since ur a senior, im a junior.

For the rejections if do an approach as often as mentioned in the Week 2 assignment, your bound to get a girl who doesnt dig you, so when u feel that she doesnt dig you ask for a number or something intead of nexting her. Thats how Im getting my rejections




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Alright, that makes sense. I'm going to do this once school starts for me. I've still got a few more weeks though.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056


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^^^^^^^^^^^that makes me laugh every time i see it.

lmao.

For some reason I just don't feel like I need to go on sosuave on anymore. A new revelation made to me yesterday.
 

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Originally posted by Void
^^^^^^^^^^^that makes me laugh every time i see it.

lmao.

For some reason I just don't feel like I need to go on sosuave on anymore. A new revelation made to me yesterday.
Whats the revelation?
 

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Originally posted by Void
^^^^^^^^^^^that makes me laugh every time i see it.

lmao.

For some reason I just don't feel like I need to go on sosuave on anymore. A new revelation made to me yesterday.
Wow you agree with me?

For some reason, I don't need sosuave for help. Could be because I never have problems anymore. lol.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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