"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When do u think is a reasonable time to put up week 2? I dont know if i should wait for when most people get to week 2 or do it early? any suggestions?
You done written it already?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm definetly gonna do this, school starts for me September 1st... then it's game on :woo:

Props to MVP, i'm taking some of those lines... that fill in the blanks one is gold.
 

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Originally posted by MVP?¥?JI€GALO
Got only 3# today lol i feel like such a loser!...but it was pretty fun doin it although some of my convosation with some of the target didnt go well due to the lack of rapport and kino. But i got 3#!2 7 and a 8. ITs harder than i thought talkin to a girl in class becuase its the first day and everybodys all quiet and shy. Then theres the teacher watchin every move you make tryin to get to know you better(but in reality shes messin up your game!) but i like to share one of the convo with this hb8. we was in class as she walkd in i gave her a smile and a wink but in suprise she pickd a seat next to me! so it was pretty cool.
me: hi are you new too?
hb: yea it took forever to find this class!
me: thats intrestin! wow tell me bout it i mean the story where you got lost and finaly find your way here sittin next to a hottie like me!
hb: *start laughin* well i got stuck in a big crowd, blah blah find...blah blah(i interrupted her *um brittany dont it make you look so much better sittin by a handsome but spontanous guy like me?
hb: (start laughin) well first of all my name isnt brittany its fatima
me: OMG! i use to know this one fatima girl and she was horny as hell! she would always tryin to grab my ass if not tha package!
hb: (drop her chin like she can believe what i just said N hit me in the arm) gosh your such a pervert!
me:didnt say anythingN got out a piece of paper as if i werent even listenin to what she just said.
hb: what are you doin ?did u hear what i just said?
so i wrote down on the piece of paper "well i really need to start payin attention to the lesson bein teach but itll be pretty cool if i can somehow find some way to communicat with you sometime tonight? I know! but you need to help me with this one. fill in the blank. _ _ _- _ _ _ _" so she did!lol just when she did clas was over!...so i head out n start hittin on my next target in my next class. (TO BE CONTINUE!!!) dont feel like typin that much today.


PIMP!!!!!!!!!
 

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I think should post week two so the ones who started can get on it. While the other just have to follow week one and two.

It would be awsome if the was a HSDJBC/Contest link at the top just like the The DJ Bible link, so we dont have to look for it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Finally, a HS post worth while. You guys are foolish if you dont capitolize on the momentum of this thread and really go to work at school within the next few weeks.

MVP... I enjoy reading your approaches but Id like to make a few comments:

Your openers are golden. They are as simple and effective as any HSer could hope for. Your energy is great, your approaches follow the 90-10 rule and girls seem to really pick up your vibe.

However, you seem to be presenting a proud sexual state (humping girls, kino, blatently looking girls up and down, ect) and then for some reason you scold girls for theirs? That is back tracking. Instead of taking their advances in a "slutty" frame, just put YOUR shield up and tease them about being players... "my momma warned me about girls like you!" "First you rub my arm, next youll be giving me a back rub, <hername> were just moving way too fast!"

Basically, you tease them for being sexual, while being sexual yourself. If you tease her for touching your butt, wrap your hands around her ass as you joke with her, ect. NEVER physically reject a girls advances. You want to reward her for chasing you, so she continues to do so. She told you her name and offered her hand... to reward her you should take her hand softly in yours and tell her your full name, and what middle school you came from. When women do what you wnt them to, reward them by giving them MORE than what they expected in return for their advance. This is VERY important.

Your transition from C+F to charm with the playerguide101 line was flawless. Personally, I would have waited to switch back to light teasing untill AFTER you spent a few minutes developing rapport. You had her in an embrace, just leave your arm around her (and your other hand on her thigh) and talk to her about ANYTHING. A simple "I love PE" could get her talking about sports, and lead into a 5 minute convo where the two of you make a mental connection. Then, switch to teasing when you change venue back to her locker.

This ^^^ is MY sticking point. I can walk up to most girls anywhere and shoot the ****, not ever actually saying anything, and get their # within 5 min. When I call... do they answer? Do they jump at the chance to see me again? All be it, 20 y/os have a lot higher expectations of their partners, but you might as well start while your young - MAKE RAPPORT!

Remember, the phone number is not your goal. I have slept with 6 girls at my ripe age of 18, three of which I never had a phone number for. Your goal is to share your wonderful personality with the world and get layed. Make sure and focus on the long term.

Great thread. Ill actually be at a high school dance tonight, Ill FR it here on this thread. Best of luck.
 
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Your openers are golden. They are as simple and effective as any HSer could hope for. Your energy is great, your approaches follow the 90-10 rule and girls seem to really pick up your vibe.

However, you seem to be presenting a proud sexual state (humping girls, kino, blatently looking girls up and down, ect) and then for some reason you scold girls for theirs? That is back tracking. Instead of taking their advances in a "slutty" frame, just put YOUR shield up and tease them about being players... "my momma warned me about girls like you!" "First you rub my arm, next youll be giving me a back rub, <hername> were just moving way too fast!"

Basically, you tease them for being sexual, while being sexual yourself. If you tease her for touching your butt, wrap your hands around her ass as you joke with her, ect. NEVER physically reject a girls advances. You want to reward her for chasing you, so she continues to do so. She told you her name and offered her hand... to reward her you should take her hand softly in yours and tell her your full name, and what middle school you came from. When women do what you wnt them to, reward them by giving them MORE than what they expected in return for their advance. This is VERY important.

Your transition from C+F to charm with the playerguide101 line was flawless. Personally, I would have waited to switch back to light teasing untill AFTER you spent a few minutes developing rapport. You had her in an embrace, just leave your arm around her (and your other hand on her thigh) and talk to her about ANYTHING. A simple "I love PE" could get her talking about sports, and lead into a 5 minute convo where the two of you make a mental connection. Then, switch to teasing when you change venue back to her locker.

This ^^^ is MY sticking point. I can walk up to most girls anywhere and shoot the ****, not ever actually saying anything, and get their # within 5 min. When I call... do they answer? Do they jump at the chance to see me again? All be it, 20 y/os have a lot higher expectations of their partners, but you might as well start while your young - MAKE RAPPORT!

Remember, the phone number is not your goal. I have slept with 6 girls at my ripe age of 18, three of which I never had a phone number for. Your goal is to share your wonderful personality with the world and get layed. Make sure and focus on the long term.

Great thread. Ill actually be at a high school dance tonight, Ill FR it here on this thread. Best of luck.

ahh something new. Shew maybe your right i mean now that i look back at it my aproach do lack of rapport. Shew its just that im so darn talented when it come to tha girls sometime i forget bout this kinda stuff. See fellas sometime when ur as skilled as me you wont need rapport! .....

(playin lol)
 

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Finally, a HS post worth while. You guys are foolish if you dont capitolize on the momentum of this thread and really go to work at school within the next few weeks.

MVP... I enjoy reading your approaches but Id like to make a few comments:

Your openers are golden. They are as simple and effective as any HSer could hope for. Your energy is great, your approaches follow the 90-10 rule and girls seem to really pick up your vibe.

However, you seem to be presenting a proud sexual state (humping girls, kino, blatently looking girls up and down, ect) and then for some reason you scold girls for theirs? That is back tracking. Instead of taking their advances in a "slutty" frame, just put YOUR shield up and tease them about being players... "my momma warned me about girls like you!" "First you rub my arm, next youll be giving me a back rub, <hername> were just moving way too fast!"

Basically, you tease them for being sexual, while being sexual yourself. If you tease her for touching your butt, wrap your hands around her ass as you joke with her, ect. NEVER physically reject a girls advances. You want to reward her for chasing you, so she continues to do so. She told you her name and offered her hand... to reward her you should take her hand softly in yours and tell her your full name, and what middle school you came from. When women do what you wnt them to, reward them by giving them MORE than what they expected in return for their advance. This is VERY important.

Your transition from C+F to charm with the playerguide101 line was flawless. Personally, I would have waited to switch back to light teasing untill AFTER you spent a few minutes developing rapport. You had her in an embrace, just leave your arm around her (and your other hand on her thigh) and talk to her about ANYTHING. A simple "I love PE" could get her talking about sports, and lead into a 5 minute convo where the two of you make a mental connection. Then, switch to teasing when you change venue back to her locker.

This ^^^ is MY sticking point. I can walk up to most girls anywhere and shoot the ****, not ever actually saying anything, and get their # within 5 min. When I call... do they answer? Do they jump at the chance to see me again? All be it, 20 y/os have a lot higher expectations of their partners, but you might as well start while your young - MAKE RAPPORT!

Remember, the phone number is not your goal. I have slept with 6 girls at my ripe age of 18, three of which I never had a phone number for. Your goal is to share your wonderful personality with the world and get layed. Make sure and focus on the long term.

Great thread. Ill actually be at a high school dance tonight, Ill FR it here on this thread. Best of luck.

Good Tips.
I'm looking forward to the field report.
 

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Week 2 will be posted tommorow

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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week 2 already? What about us who haven't even started school yet?
 

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Originally posted by True Wolf
week 2 already? What about us who haven't even started school yet?
I'm guessing we just do it whenever school finally starts for us.
But yeah, I see what you mean, school doesn't start until around August 30th for me.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
I'm guessing we just do it whenever school finally starts for us.
But yeah, I see what you mean, school doesn't start until around August 30th for me.

Only week one and two will be realeased this shortly....im gonna wait for more people to catch up. I was just getting tons of pm's to hurry and make week two because they were on their second week of school


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First day of school is tommorow, don't know if be able to accomplish this, but I'll try.
I'll post results, well, tommorow.
 
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