MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
Don Juan
You done written it already?When do u think is a reasonable time to put up week 2? I dont know if i should wait for when most people get to week 2 or do it early? any suggestions?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You done written it already?When do u think is a reasonable time to put up week 2? I dont know if i should wait for when most people get to week 2 or do it early? any suggestions?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Originally posted by MVP?¥?JI€GALO
Got only 3# today lol i feel like such a loser!...but it was pretty fun doin it although some of my convosation with some of the target didnt go well due to the lack of rapport and kino. But i got 3#!2 7 and a 8. ITs harder than i thought talkin to a girl in class becuase its the first day and everybodys all quiet and shy. Then theres the teacher watchin every move you make tryin to get to know you better(but in reality shes messin up your game!) but i like to share one of the convo with this hb8. we was in class as she walkd in i gave her a smile and a wink but in suprise she pickd a seat next to me! so it was pretty cool.
me: hi are you new too?
hb: yea it took forever to find this class!
me: thats intrestin! wow tell me bout it i mean the story where you got lost and finaly find your way here sittin next to a hottie like me!
hb: *start laughin* well i got stuck in a big crowd, blah blah find...blah blah(i interrupted her *um brittany dont it make you look so much better sittin by a handsome but spontanous guy like me?
hb: (start laughin) well first of all my name isnt brittany its fatima
me: OMG! i use to know this one fatima girl and she was horny as hell! she would always tryin to grab my ass if not tha package!
hb: (drop her chin like she can believe what i just said N hit me in the arm) gosh your such a pervert!
me:didnt say anythingN got out a piece of paper as if i werent even listenin to what she just said.
hb: what are you doin ?did u hear what i just said?
so i wrote down on the piece of paper "well i really need to start payin attention to the lesson bein teach but itll be pretty cool if i can somehow find some way to communicat with you sometime tonight? I know! but you need to help me with this one. fill in the blank. _ _ _- _ _ _ _" so she did!lol just when she did clas was over!...so i head out n start hittin on my next target in my next class. (TO BE CONTINUE!!!) dont feel like typin that much today.
Not the whole thing just up to Week 2.Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
You done written it already?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your openers are golden. They are as simple and effective as any HSer could hope for. Your energy is great, your approaches follow the 90-10 rule and girls seem to really pick up your vibe.
However, you seem to be presenting a proud sexual state (humping girls, kino, blatently looking girls up and down, ect) and then for some reason you scold girls for theirs? That is back tracking. Instead of taking their advances in a "slutty" frame, just put YOUR shield up and tease them about being players... "my momma warned me about girls like you!" "First you rub my arm, next youll be giving me a back rub, <hername> were just moving way too fast!"
Basically, you tease them for being sexual, while being sexual yourself. If you tease her for touching your butt, wrap your hands around her ass as you joke with her, ect. NEVER physically reject a girls advances. You want to reward her for chasing you, so she continues to do so. She told you her name and offered her hand... to reward her you should take her hand softly in yours and tell her your full name, and what middle school you came from. When women do what you wnt them to, reward them by giving them MORE than what they expected in return for their advance. This is VERY important.
Your transition from C+F to charm with the playerguide101 line was flawless. Personally, I would have waited to switch back to light teasing untill AFTER you spent a few minutes developing rapport. You had her in an embrace, just leave your arm around her (and your other hand on her thigh) and talk to her about ANYTHING. A simple "I love PE" could get her talking about sports, and lead into a 5 minute convo where the two of you make a mental connection. Then, switch to teasing when you change venue back to her locker.
This ^^^ is MY sticking point. I can walk up to most girls anywhere and shoot the ****, not ever actually saying anything, and get their # within 5 min. When I call... do they answer? Do they jump at the chance to see me again? All be it, 20 y/os have a lot higher expectations of their partners, but you might as well start while your young - MAKE RAPPORT!
Remember, the phone number is not your goal. I have slept with 6 girls at my ripe age of 18, three of which I never had a phone number for. Your goal is to share your wonderful personality with the world and get layed. Make sure and focus on the long term.
Great thread. Ill actually be at a high school dance tonight, Ill FR it here on this thread. Best of luck.
Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Finally, a HS post worth while. You guys are foolish if you dont capitolize on the momentum of this thread and really go to work at school within the next few weeks.
MVP... I enjoy reading your approaches but Id like to make a few comments:
Your openers are golden. They are as simple and effective as any HSer could hope for. Your energy is great, your approaches follow the 90-10 rule and girls seem to really pick up your vibe.
However, you seem to be presenting a proud sexual state (humping girls, kino, blatently looking girls up and down, ect) and then for some reason you scold girls for theirs? That is back tracking. Instead of taking their advances in a "slutty" frame, just put YOUR shield up and tease them about being players... "my momma warned me about girls like you!" "First you rub my arm, next youll be giving me a back rub, <hername> were just moving way too fast!"
Basically, you tease them for being sexual, while being sexual yourself. If you tease her for touching your butt, wrap your hands around her ass as you joke with her, ect. NEVER physically reject a girls advances. You want to reward her for chasing you, so she continues to do so. She told you her name and offered her hand... to reward her you should take her hand softly in yours and tell her your full name, and what middle school you came from. When women do what you wnt them to, reward them by giving them MORE than what they expected in return for their advance. This is VERY important.
Your transition from C+F to charm with the playerguide101 line was flawless. Personally, I would have waited to switch back to light teasing untill AFTER you spent a few minutes developing rapport. You had her in an embrace, just leave your arm around her (and your other hand on her thigh) and talk to her about ANYTHING. A simple "I love PE" could get her talking about sports, and lead into a 5 minute convo where the two of you make a mental connection. Then, switch to teasing when you change venue back to her locker.
This ^^^ is MY sticking point. I can walk up to most girls anywhere and shoot the ****, not ever actually saying anything, and get their # within 5 min. When I call... do they answer? Do they jump at the chance to see me again? All be it, 20 y/os have a lot higher expectations of their partners, but you might as well start while your young - MAKE RAPPORT!
Remember, the phone number is not your goal. I have slept with 6 girls at my ripe age of 18, three of which I never had a phone number for. Your goal is to share your wonderful personality with the world and get layed. Make sure and focus on the long term.
Great thread. Ill actually be at a high school dance tonight, Ill FR it here on this thread. Best of luck.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don't be TOO modest.Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
- Smooth Player 056-
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Dont worry I wont lolOriginally posted by whyshy
Don't be TOO modest.
I'm guessing we just do it whenever school finally starts for us.Originally posted by True Wolf
week 2 already? What about us who haven't even started school yet?
Originally posted by Viper
I'm guessing we just do it whenever school finally starts for us.
But yeah, I see what you mean, school doesn't start until around August 30th for me.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.