"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Weeding Out Fat Chicks Online Is Hardwork!

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I'm finding it harder and harder to weed out the fatties online these days...

Chicks these days have image enhancing and altering software, that brings them over as much slimmer than they actually are..

Plus so many chicks online have only face pics, so you cannot tell how FAT they are!

And here's where it gets TOTALLY fooked up... If you ask them to send a FULL PIC they accuse you of either being SHALLOW or claim you are some kinda pervert who is just after pics!

FATTIES are making things difficult for DJS
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ahh.....they aren't fooling me. If they only have face pics, there's about a 95% chance they are fat. It's only going to piss off the fat girls when you ask. Girls with nice bodies always have body pics they like to show off. They know what brings the boys to the yard.
 

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ahh.....they aren't fooling me. If they only have face pics, there's about a 95% chance they are fat. It's only going to piss off the fat girls when you ask. Girls with nice bodies always have body pics they like to show off. They know what brings the boys to the yard.
This. But I'd put the number more like 100% instead of 95 lol.

I learned this slowly during my OLD experiences.
1. Only face pics? Swipe left. GUARANTEED overweight.
2. The only pics where you can see her hips and thighs are taken from way up high looking down? Swipe left.
3. The only part of her legs you can see is below the knees? Swipe left. Lots of overweight girls have skinny calves.
4. Always wears dresses that conceal figure? Swipe left. What's up with those damn summer dresses so many girls are wearing these days that have no shape - it's strapless, with elastic around the top, and it's just like a giant potato bag that goes down to their knees. No taper or fit anywhere - just like a giant pillowcase. You have no clue what's lurking under there.

Probably been on 100+ OLD dates and have not once been pleasantly surprised with a girl who does the 4 things above. I don't require them to have a bikini pic (though it's always nice if they do), but I need to see them in jeans or pants without some top that conveniently hides the hips and thighs. I am sure to provide pics in my profile that, tastefully, allow them to see my size and shape and appearance exactly as I am in real life. I expect the same. Probably some girls find me too slender - good. Rather they not waste my time and theirs meeting up.

I haven't come across a girl using image altering software to look thinner yet. That's really dishonest and messed up.
 

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Full recent undoctored body pic, or NEXT.

Ask for a time stamp, too.

Bra size is also a big indicator. Fatties tend to have big boobies. I'd shoot for A cups. Size A usually has the best ass.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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here's a benchmark

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Also can you even comprehend how dumb and entitled some of these online chicks are?

They can't even get there head around, why it even matters to see a full body pic?

Who the fuk in the right mind, would go through the whole effort of taking time out for a date, getting all dressed up, paying travelling expenses, just to go find out the chick he is meeting is a BIG fat fuking elephant!

I mean seriously, why not just provide a full pic and save yourself the embarrassment and save some poor dude from wasting his day!
 

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ahh.....they aren't fooling me. If they only have face pics, there's about a 95% chance they are fat. It's only going to piss off the fat girls when you ask. Girls with nice bodies always have body pics they like to show off. They know what brings the boys to the yard.
Yup or if they have the overhead looking down shot...dead giveaway
 

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Also can you even comprehend how dumb and entitled some of these online chicks are?

They can't even get there head around, why it even matters to see a full body pic?

Who the fuk in the right mind, would go through the whole effort of taking time out for a date, getting all dressed up, paying travelling expenses, just to go find out the chick he is meeting is a BIG fat fuking elephant!

I mean seriously, why not just provide a full pic and save yourself the embarrassment and save some poor dude from wasting his day!
They want you to worship them, while they eat cake. Orbiters do that.
 

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another benchmark...

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Also can you even comprehend how dumb and entitled some of these online chicks are?
They are suffering from the same brainwashing we have suffered from over the past 30+ years: If a guy cares about a woman's body, then he's a shallow pig. He should love you for your personality and who you are, not the way you look. But those same rules don't apply to women (at least, they can't TALK about them).

Went on a date with a girl on Tinder who's only body pic was of her sitting down between two logs so all you could see was shoulders-up and knees down. Looked slender from that. Big mistake. I show up and she was probably 200lbs or more. I should have turned around right there but I'm too nice. She ordered a double cheese burger and tater tots. I had a chicken salad. She texted me a day or two later and I told her politely that I didn't feel any chemistry. She tried baiting me by saying, "Uh, ok, well I mean we've only hung out once so unless it's purely physical......" I didn't bother responding. Not going to get into the argument she was gearing up for.

Wifehunter: Those pics look like 19 year old models that have 13 year old faces photoshopped on them. Kind of creeping me out LOL.
 

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They can't even get there head around, why it even matters to see a full body pic?
The fatties know Exactly what they’re doing.
Try to get buyer attention and sell something by showing the negative aspects about it first.…
See how far that gets you.
Is it deception ? Yes
 
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Wifehunter: Those pics look like 19 year old models that have 13 year old faces photoshopped on them. Kind of creeping me out LOL.
LOLz!!! I did'nt notice, but then again, I tend to go for baby faces!:eek::D:p

Which makes me think, pics are not the way to do an assessment. Too, unreliable.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Like others have said, It's mostly extremely close up face pics or a bunch of stupid a$$ filters that hide their actual face. If all you see is this, next them, there's a 10000% chance they're fat (& they know it, which is why they're too self conscious to show a full body shot).
There will always be times, however, where you judge too fast off the first pic, match, go through her pics and be like "aw fuk bye".
 

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not really. look for collar bones. if you don't see any she's huge.
 
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