youngprodigy
Don Juan
Could a successful DJ also be a stoner? Like have a successful social and career life, be meeting a lot of high quality women and reach their true potential.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Weed
- Thread starter youngprodigy
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backseatjuan
Banned
Not like smoke weed every day type of stoner, but once in a while why not. Problem is when you become successful - working out, business - you realize weed is something that you don't need.
I smoke almost every night a few hours before bed. I been smoking on and off since I was 15. I'm not stoned all day long. I don't smoke before dates or gaming.
Right now, I'm doing the best I have ever done in my life with women. So, the answer is yes.
Right now, I'm doing the best I have ever done in my life with women. So, the answer is yes.
homie
Don Juan
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I've been smoking everyday for five months, 1g or more a day, well, like a real stoner lol, and I'm all out of game. Quitting now. Smoking like that really messes everything up. Been using other stuff too. If you smoke once in a week and do not do hard drugs regularly, thats fine.
backseatjuan
Banned
I've got tested recently, cops came to my house, took me and tested me. Refusal is a fine. I come out clean, told them to drink my piss. Then in the beginning of April, a lot of people died from drugs in my city, probably because of bad merchandise. My hommie died, he was only 36, he took pills, which suppose to be sold by prescription, but are sold freely, and drank some beer.
The only drug you should be doing is weed, once in a while. At that you should buy a baggie no more, so that you don't get locked if sh1t hits the fan. Coke, and other sh1t, stay away. Chemical substitutes, like pills, spice, and equivalents of coke and heroin, stay away, they kill people.
Just alcohol and weed once in a while. If it's affecting your life, say no to it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.