"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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youngprodigy

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Could a successful DJ also be a stoner? Like have a successful social and career life, be meeting a lot of high quality women and reach their true potential.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not like smoke weed every day type of stoner, but once in a while why not. Problem is when you become successful - working out, business - you realize weed is something that you don't need.
 

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Could a successful DJ also be a stoner? Like have a successful social and career life, be meeting a lot of high quality women and reach their true potential.
I've been smoking everyday for five months, 1g or more a day, well, like a real stoner lol, and I'm all out of game. Quitting now. Smoking like that really messes everything up. Been using other stuff too. If you smoke once in a week and do not do hard drugs regularly, thats fine.
 

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Been using other stuff too.
I've got tested recently, cops came to my house, took me and tested me. Refusal is a fine. I come out clean, told them to drink my piss. Then in the beginning of April, a lot of people died from drugs in my city, probably because of bad merchandise. My hommie died, he was only 36, he took pills, which suppose to be sold by prescription, but are sold freely, and drank some beer.

The only drug you should be doing is weed, once in a while. At that you should buy a baggie no more, so that you don't get locked if sh1t hits the fan. Coke, and other sh1t, stay away. Chemical substitutes, like pills, spice, and equivalents of coke and heroin, stay away, they kill people.

Just alcohol and weed once in a while. If it's affecting your life, say no to it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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