"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WEEd is BAD for you

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Originally posted by undesputable
some of that is bull**** and you know it....or it might just be that while youre smoking you push yourself harder to think that weed has no bad effect on you.

i used to be the same way. when i started smoking i would study more and try to do better at everything just to think "oh weed has no bad effect at all". but after a little while i was just like **** it thats when i just wanted to sit down, watch tv, listen to music, eat and sleep.

thats when i figuered weed wasnt my kind of drug, bc i like to be active and doing **** all the time. thats when i decided to do cocaine and meth......no im just kidding, i dont do that **** either....

but anyways think of the kinds of things you would do, if you quit doing weed and still push yourself as hard as you are now.....
I aint bullsh*ttin you at all, but I really have nothing to prove to you.

I don't drive drunk, btw. I said stoned, and I drive the same stoned or sober, I've been doin it for a long time and its nothing like driving drunk, I did that too and its scary.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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