Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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WEEd is BAD for you

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Originally posted by undesputable
some of that is bull**** and you know it....or it might just be that while youre smoking you push yourself harder to think that weed has no bad effect on you.

i used to be the same way. when i started smoking i would study more and try to do better at everything just to think "oh weed has no bad effect at all". but after a little while i was just like **** it thats when i just wanted to sit down, watch tv, listen to music, eat and sleep.

thats when i figuered weed wasnt my kind of drug, bc i like to be active and doing **** all the time. thats when i decided to do cocaine and meth......no im just kidding, i dont do that **** either....

but anyways think of the kinds of things you would do, if you quit doing weed and still push yourself as hard as you are now.....
I aint bullsh*ttin you at all, but I really have nothing to prove to you.

I don't drive drunk, btw. I said stoned, and I drive the same stoned or sober, I've been doin it for a long time and its nothing like driving drunk, I did that too and its scary.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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