"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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weed changed me?

Snap87

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Sup. ever since i started smoking weed, which was like 7 months ago, ive been more social. I dont mean social during my "high" but even times when im not high, i am more social. Is it really the weed that changed me? Should i keep smoking it, or stop and see what happens?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bvbidd

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It's a hobby that's kind of harmless and pointless but makes you feel good, it gives you an identity a lot of teenagers do it and it gives them more of an immature confidence that you can and do smoke drugs.
 

psychocandy

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Yeah I noticed that when I started smoking weed 3-4 years ago.

Before I started I was always too edgy, too nervous, always thinking about **** waaaaaaay too much. I noticed that when I was high, I wasn't that social but when I wasn't high I was definitely more laid back, more chill around people.

I've stopped smoking so much recently though. As much as I love smoking weed, it slows you the FVCK down. Makes you kinda stupid. And I'm trying to harness my edgier, more active side anyway.

Just don't let yourself rely on it as a social crutch.
 

Tomatoes

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I too smoke weed. My mates all say im the most chilled out person they know. Really easy to get on with and perfect in crisis situations.

They say this about me when im not high. It will change your social aspect. Normally for the better (Depending on useage).

Its a very hard drug to get truely addicted to as it doesnt have any addictive components. The only thing mildly addictive about it is the feeling. Which can be overcome.

If its made you a better person why stop? Dont rely on it like others said but it will make you more chilled/social.

Makes a good isolate line too. If the girl likes that kinda thing.


Sarge On!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bible_Belt

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Whatever negative effects that pot has would show up in Belize and Jamaica. Maybe those people are a little lazy and not especially motivated, but they are certainly not dying of cancer and going crazy.
 
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