"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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weed changed me?

Snap87

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Sup. ever since i started smoking weed, which was like 7 months ago, ive been more social. I dont mean social during my "high" but even times when im not high, i am more social. Is it really the weed that changed me? Should i keep smoking it, or stop and see what happens?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bvbidd

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It's a hobby that's kind of harmless and pointless but makes you feel good, it gives you an identity a lot of teenagers do it and it gives them more of an immature confidence that you can and do smoke drugs.
 

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Yeah I noticed that when I started smoking weed 3-4 years ago.

Before I started I was always too edgy, too nervous, always thinking about **** waaaaaaay too much. I noticed that when I was high, I wasn't that social but when I wasn't high I was definitely more laid back, more chill around people.

I've stopped smoking so much recently though. As much as I love smoking weed, it slows you the FVCK down. Makes you kinda stupid. And I'm trying to harness my edgier, more active side anyway.

Just don't let yourself rely on it as a social crutch.
 

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I too smoke weed. My mates all say im the most chilled out person they know. Really easy to get on with and perfect in crisis situations.

They say this about me when im not high. It will change your social aspect. Normally for the better (Depending on useage).

Its a very hard drug to get truely addicted to as it doesnt have any addictive components. The only thing mildly addictive about it is the feeling. Which can be overcome.

If its made you a better person why stop? Dont rely on it like others said but it will make you more chilled/social.

Makes a good isolate line too. If the girl likes that kinda thing.


Sarge On!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Whatever negative effects that pot has would show up in Belize and Jamaica. Maybe those people are a little lazy and not especially motivated, but they are certainly not dying of cancer and going crazy.
 
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