i met this hot chick on the beach the other day. she was alone so i started macking. she ate it up. we hung out. she is a complete airhead, but really hot. so she is going home to visit her parents the other weekend. she says that she wants to see me before she leaves for a couple of minutes. ok. well she comes over to my friends house that im at. he is roasting weed and of course i partake. she comes over and im ****ing stoned, but still macking. i obviously cant do her at my friends house, but she gets pissed that im stoned and completely acts different now. i dont reaaly care, but this chick is hot. and now she aint returning my calls. what a stuck up *****. any advice?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
weed and women
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
"if you don't like my fire, don't come around, cause im gonna burn one down" ... I know i know, i can't post here, but i couldn't help it with this one
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
You will find that pot gets an extreme reaction out of women. Most of them hate it, but the ones who like it usually use being stoned as an excuse to be a slvt.
I think its hit or miss, alot of girls I date hate it. To be honest sure weed is fun and feels good buts its not a good thing. It usally makes you anti-social, you eat a ton of food, and you cant mack to any girls, You become unmotivated
jophil28
Master Don Juan
There is a reason why pot is called "dope" - maybe you get what I am saying.
She does not want to know you because she saw you switch from being a fun,****y entertaining guy on the beach to a drugged out loser.
She is not such an "airhead' after all.
She does not want to know you because she saw you switch from being a fun,****y entertaining guy on the beach to a drugged out loser.
She is not such an "airhead' after all.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Hey Dalblah- imagine this short 'movie' -
You are walking on the beach and this hot and sweet 9 bumps into you because her dog is getting frisky and towing her along. She laughs and kinda apologises and you two chat and she offers to buy you coffee . You are taken with her because she is outgoing and confident . She invites you to visit with her at her friend's house the next day. Fast forward ->
You arrive and she opens the door with a big grin BUT you know that she is rolling drunk, slurring her words and almost incoherent. You find a way to back out and you leave.
Question.. She text you and calls your voicemeil the next day ?
Do you reply ?
You are walking on the beach and this hot and sweet 9 bumps into you because her dog is getting frisky and towing her along. She laughs and kinda apologises and you two chat and she offers to buy you coffee . You are taken with her because she is outgoing and confident . She invites you to visit with her at her friend's house the next day. Fast forward ->
You arrive and she opens the door with a big grin BUT you know that she is rolling drunk, slurring her words and almost incoherent. You find a way to back out and you leave.
Question.. She text you and calls your voicemeil the next day ?
Do you reply ?
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
"420 friendly" is almost a given here in California, but it marks them right off my list for 4 reasons:
1-I can't tell my teen-aged cousin that drugs are bad if the guy I'm dating is puffing a blunt. (Unless it's one of those Do-you-want-to-end-up-like-him? lessons)
2-Continuous use of the stuff makes you not only fat from the munchies, but paranoid, anti-social and lazy.
3-The stuff gives me stabbing headaches! (Yeah, even the good stuff)
4-Weekends are for DOING stuff, not smoking and staring at the TV.
1-I can't tell my teen-aged cousin that drugs are bad if the guy I'm dating is puffing a blunt. (Unless it's one of those Do-you-want-to-end-up-like-him? lessons)
2-Continuous use of the stuff makes you not only fat from the munchies, but paranoid, anti-social and lazy.
3-The stuff gives me stabbing headaches! (Yeah, even the good stuff)
4-Weekends are for DOING stuff, not smoking and staring at the TV.
but im not a pothead, im active and not fat. just like to puff every now and then. but yes, some girls are turned off. but im tired of dealing with these chicks. forget this *****. there are so many cool ones out there that dont give a ****! life is too short to deal with prudes! "girls are like buses, if i miss one, another will be along in five minutes"
strong like bull
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you are what you make of yourself. ive known potheads who only eat, smoke, sleep and have a job that barely pays for bills and more weed.
i also know guys who own their own houses, have good paying jobs and are fit and active. and like to smoke on occasion. sometimes before workin out or playing basketball.
you are what you make of yourself. being an unmotivated loser is a fault of person.
-SLB
i also know guys who own their own houses, have good paying jobs and are fit and active. and like to smoke on occasion. sometimes before workin out or playing basketball.
you are what you make of yourself. being an unmotivated loser is a fault of person.
-SLB
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.