i met this hot chick on the beach the other day. she was alone so i started macking. she ate it up. we hung out. she is a complete airhead, but really hot. so she is going home to visit her parents the other weekend. she says that she wants to see me before she leaves for a couple of minutes. ok. well she comes over to my friends house that im at. he is roasting weed and of course i partake. she comes over and im ****ing stoned, but still macking. i obviously cant do her at my friends house, but she gets pissed that im stoned and completely acts different now. i dont reaaly care, but this chick is hot. and now she aint returning my calls. what a stuck up *****. any advice?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
weed and women
- Thread starter dahblah
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
"if you don't like my fire, don't come around, cause im gonna burn one down" ... I know i know, i can't post here, but i couldn't help it with this one
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
You will find that pot gets an extreme reaction out of women. Most of them hate it, but the ones who like it usually use being stoned as an excuse to be a slvt.
I think its hit or miss, alot of girls I date hate it. To be honest sure weed is fun and feels good buts its not a good thing. It usally makes you anti-social, you eat a ton of food, and you cant mack to any girls, You become unmotivated
jophil28
Master Don Juan
There is a reason why pot is called "dope" - maybe you get what I am saying.
She does not want to know you because she saw you switch from being a fun,****y entertaining guy on the beach to a drugged out loser.
She is not such an "airhead' after all.
She does not want to know you because she saw you switch from being a fun,****y entertaining guy on the beach to a drugged out loser.
She is not such an "airhead' after all.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Hey Dalblah- imagine this short 'movie' -
You are walking on the beach and this hot and sweet 9 bumps into you because her dog is getting frisky and towing her along. She laughs and kinda apologises and you two chat and she offers to buy you coffee . You are taken with her because she is outgoing and confident . She invites you to visit with her at her friend's house the next day. Fast forward ->
You arrive and she opens the door with a big grin BUT you know that she is rolling drunk, slurring her words and almost incoherent. You find a way to back out and you leave.
Question.. She text you and calls your voicemeil the next day ?
Do you reply ?
You are walking on the beach and this hot and sweet 9 bumps into you because her dog is getting frisky and towing her along. She laughs and kinda apologises and you two chat and she offers to buy you coffee . You are taken with her because she is outgoing and confident . She invites you to visit with her at her friend's house the next day. Fast forward ->
You arrive and she opens the door with a big grin BUT you know that she is rolling drunk, slurring her words and almost incoherent. You find a way to back out and you leave.
Question.. She text you and calls your voicemeil the next day ?
Do you reply ?
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
"420 friendly" is almost a given here in California, but it marks them right off my list for 4 reasons:
1-I can't tell my teen-aged cousin that drugs are bad if the guy I'm dating is puffing a blunt. (Unless it's one of those Do-you-want-to-end-up-like-him? lessons)
2-Continuous use of the stuff makes you not only fat from the munchies, but paranoid, anti-social and lazy.
3-The stuff gives me stabbing headaches! (Yeah, even the good stuff)
4-Weekends are for DOING stuff, not smoking and staring at the TV.
1-I can't tell my teen-aged cousin that drugs are bad if the guy I'm dating is puffing a blunt. (Unless it's one of those Do-you-want-to-end-up-like-him? lessons)
2-Continuous use of the stuff makes you not only fat from the munchies, but paranoid, anti-social and lazy.
3-The stuff gives me stabbing headaches! (Yeah, even the good stuff)
4-Weekends are for DOING stuff, not smoking and staring at the TV.
but im not a pothead, im active and not fat. just like to puff every now and then. but yes, some girls are turned off. but im tired of dealing with these chicks. forget this *****. there are so many cool ones out there that dont give a ****! life is too short to deal with prudes! "girls are like buses, if i miss one, another will be along in five minutes"
strong like bull
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 5, 2002
- Messages
- 498
- Reaction score
- 7
you are what you make of yourself. ive known potheads who only eat, smoke, sleep and have a job that barely pays for bills and more weed.
i also know guys who own their own houses, have good paying jobs and are fit and active. and like to smoke on occasion. sometimes before workin out or playing basketball.
you are what you make of yourself. being an unmotivated loser is a fault of person.
-SLB
i also know guys who own their own houses, have good paying jobs and are fit and active. and like to smoke on occasion. sometimes before workin out or playing basketball.
you are what you make of yourself. being an unmotivated loser is a fault of person.
-SLB
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.