"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wedding tips needed...

Murph

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Obviously, there will be lots of attractive, drunk women there ... that's the easy part.

But the bride's family and mine are close. Her youngest sister is my age. We're friends but not so close that it's LJBF. Anyway, I know when she's at the reception in her red brides' maid dress, she's gonna look incredible. I just need some tips on how I should approach the situation, show my possible interest, etc. She goes to school up north but will be finished after this spring. I wanted to know if there's anything specific I can do to plant some seeds. I ramped up the EC a little at my 21st b-day last night ... anything else I can do tomorrow night?

Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crank_It_Up

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plant some seeds? dude, are you raising a crop or chasing women?

1) don't get too drunk cause you need to be alert

2) chat her up, hopefully she'll be drinking

3) dance with her.... at some point there will be a slow song to dance to, hold her close, go for a slow smooth kiss and see what sort of reaction you get. If nothing, then move on to someone else. Lots of happy drunk women at a wedding reception, don't miss out on this opportunity.
 

Alpine

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You think that's bad wait till you get older and your friends are 30+.

Went to a wedding last week and there was only one single female out of 25 women and she was fat and aloof.

When the bride threw the bouquet they all ran AWAY from it.

Free beer and food though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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