"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wedding Day Tomorrow: Chance to #close/score?

j8snx1

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Sorry for posting this for second time. I posted this in the high school section but I assume there's only a few who experienced this. I seek older DJs' aid!

QUICK! I'd like some tips or something for tomorrow! ASAP!

Alright, so I'm attending a wedding tomorrow and everytime I think about it, I think of Wedding Crashers.

I just felt like asking...but

do you guys want to suggest to me any advices, tips, encouragements, words of wisdom, or anything before I try to sarge on tomorrow? What to say?

P.S. - It's a korean wedding dudes...lots of fluent speaking koreans. What's ironic is that I'M korean yet I don't speak as fluently as the other people do. Sarging those fob chicks will be a challenge

P.P.S. - It would be very helpful if you guys can tell me what to talk about that is wedding related or something. It's my first attending a wedding, and I wanna get a good impression of it (by doing the DJ of course), so I attend more weddings from now on if you know what I mean ;)

Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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reyalp

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You've got an assumed rapport, just wing it from there.
 

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love is in the air.it doesn't matter you can't speak Korean as long as they atleast know english (so you can communicate).Just be outgoing and put the vibe out.(good body language)
 

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idk if koreans have dance receptions after wedding or not i sure no black n whites do!! but yea get a girl on the floor and start asking her questions be determined....and want it..if you wanna score later that night talk to a girl who you believe will give you some...if you want a #close talk to a girl who u believe will give you the number close....don't be a B!tch and tell her whats on your mind...that's what i would do in this situation
 

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FIELD REPORT: Wedding = BoRiNg

So I got back from my wedding an hour ago...and let me tell you.


IT WAS A TOTAL LET-DOWN.

No, I'm not complaining because I didn't bother to approach. It was because there was no one to approach. The only girls I saw that were actually decent looking was either bunched up with the other guys and girls(friends of the groom/bride), and were like...23 yrs and up? The rest were men and women in their 40+. I was lucky enough to actually have the patience to sit around and eat the food, which was great by the way.

So yeah, no sarging, because there was no one to sarge. All the ones that I thought were decent enough to approach were already cuddling with other dudes, so I was out of options. Better luck elsewhere I say.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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