"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wed night date??

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so i asked this girl out for saturday, but she works late so it wasnt really going to work. She counter offered for wednesday night, which seems like an odd night of the week to go out.

Do you think i should accept the wednesday night? or is she just giving me that so she doesn't have to waste a weekend night on a first date. I know some people say to only go on a first date during the week, NOT on the weekends. what do you guys think?

And also, what the he!l do people do on a wednesday night? Especially on a first date? We are both in college.

as always, much appreciated.
 

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What's wrong with Wedneday, she counter offered so she's interested. Treat it like you would if the date were on Saturday?
 
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Exactly, listen to "chinwaggler". You're in man, i would believe that shes busy, cause shes deff showed some interest is she gave you another time and date. Just charm her pants off like you would any other time.
 
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cool...plan is to go to a bar in the city...grab a drink and play some pool to give the date a little action!!
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol i thought u was talking about a wedding date :p
but yea what difference does it make what day you see a girl, some people are busy on weekends some people are busy during the week it makes no difference really
 
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haha i can see what you mean bout the wedding date lol.

i dont know...i guess i was just thinking "she doesnt want to waste her time on me on a weekend night so she offered a random wednesday night". But i guess if she wasnt interested at all she wouldnt have offered that.

I'll be looking for that kiss close, but nor forcing it :)
 
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Well, why would you want to waste time with HER on the weekend? She hasn't earned that either.
 
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very good point sodbuster, and that is going to be my attitude from now on with girls. they have to earn it...
 
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99% of the times all my dates are on weekdays because of exactly that. I dont like to take up a friday or saturday night going on a date because i like to go out partying with friends instead, but no 1vs1 dates. Very rare exceptions have been known to be made though ;)
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tryin 2 play said:
i dont know...i guess i was just thinking "she doesnt want to waste her time on me on a weekend night so she offered a random wednesday night". But i guess if she wasnt interested at all she wouldnt have offered that.

I'll be looking for that kiss close, but nor forcing it :)
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As someone else said, it is you who should be pushing for the weekday thing rather than her. If it's your first date, you have better things to do on the weekend than go out with some chick.
 
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yes you guys are 100% correct. This is going to be my mentality from now on...with her and any other girls i date. Ill def push for some more weekday dates before she earns the weekend haha. I like this.

ps things went great in case you all were wondering haha.
 
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