"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cinamon

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So, i went out at the weekend with some friends of mine and met this guy at the weekend. We exchanged numbers and left it at that. He texted me throughout the day yesterday and we chatted, had a laugh. So yesterday evening i get a message saying wanna chat on msn, and we logged on. He invites me to his webcam session. Over the course of the next hour, he stripped out of womens panties, masturbated, used various objects to penetrate his ass then jerked till he came. I'd only met him two days before and I know his mates, why would he do something like that. I enjoyed watching him, but i could have downloaded it or circulated it to his friends. I wont, cuz i dont do stuff like that, but some people are so stupid, or just dont care.

The thing is, if you are that desperate to do something like that, the least you should do is make sure you dont get your face in, you never know when it will catch up with you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jophil28

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Cinamon said:
So, i went out at the weekend with some friends of mine and met this guy at the weekend. We exchanged numbers and left it at that. He texted me throughout the day yesterday and we chatted, had a laugh. So yesterday evening i get a message saying wanna chat on msn, and we logged on. He invites me to his webcam session. Over the course of the next hour, he stripped out of womens panties, masturbated, used various objects to penetrate his ass then jerked till he came. I'd only met him two days before and I know his mates, why would he do something like that. I enjoyed watching him, but i could have downloaded it or circulated it to his friends. I wont, cuz i dont do stuff like that, but some people are so stupid, or just dont care.

The thing is, if you are that desperate to do something like that, the least you should do is make sure you dont get your face in, you never know when it will catch up with you.
Guys like that are hard to find. Don't forget about us when you are sending out the wedding invitations.
He sounds like a catch.
 

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He may have heard or got the impression that you're a bit of a sex freak, hence his... err ... "curious" behaviour. Otherwise I can't imagine someone doing that.
 

Cinamon

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Schwank said:
He may have heard or got the impression that you're a bit of a sex freak, hence his... err ... "curious" behaviour. Otherwise I can't imagine someone doing that.
lol. Do you know what, I enjoy that kind of "curious" behaviour, but only after gentle encouragement. I dont appreciate things you dont work for. Now, if he were reluctant at first, and then agreed we'd be talking.

I wonder if he will be the least bit phased by it when we meet next... f we do.
 

ENIGMA16

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If he isn't then I bet he'll have a raging hard on because he's probably turned on by the fact that you know his secret.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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