"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cinamon

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So, i went out at the weekend with some friends of mine and met this guy at the weekend. We exchanged numbers and left it at that. He texted me throughout the day yesterday and we chatted, had a laugh. So yesterday evening i get a message saying wanna chat on msn, and we logged on. He invites me to his webcam session. Over the course of the next hour, he stripped out of womens panties, masturbated, used various objects to penetrate his ass then jerked till he came. I'd only met him two days before and I know his mates, why would he do something like that. I enjoyed watching him, but i could have downloaded it or circulated it to his friends. I wont, cuz i dont do stuff like that, but some people are so stupid, or just dont care.

The thing is, if you are that desperate to do something like that, the least you should do is make sure you dont get your face in, you never know when it will catch up with you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jophil28

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Cinamon said:
So, i went out at the weekend with some friends of mine and met this guy at the weekend. We exchanged numbers and left it at that. He texted me throughout the day yesterday and we chatted, had a laugh. So yesterday evening i get a message saying wanna chat on msn, and we logged on. He invites me to his webcam session. Over the course of the next hour, he stripped out of womens panties, masturbated, used various objects to penetrate his ass then jerked till he came. I'd only met him two days before and I know his mates, why would he do something like that. I enjoyed watching him, but i could have downloaded it or circulated it to his friends. I wont, cuz i dont do stuff like that, but some people are so stupid, or just dont care.

The thing is, if you are that desperate to do something like that, the least you should do is make sure you dont get your face in, you never know when it will catch up with you.
Guys like that are hard to find. Don't forget about us when you are sending out the wedding invitations.
He sounds like a catch.
 

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He may have heard or got the impression that you're a bit of a sex freak, hence his... err ... "curious" behaviour. Otherwise I can't imagine someone doing that.
 

Cinamon

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Schwank said:
He may have heard or got the impression that you're a bit of a sex freak, hence his... err ... "curious" behaviour. Otherwise I can't imagine someone doing that.
lol. Do you know what, I enjoy that kind of "curious" behaviour, but only after gentle encouragement. I dont appreciate things you dont work for. Now, if he were reluctant at first, and then agreed we'd be talking.

I wonder if he will be the least bit phased by it when we meet next... f we do.
 

ENIGMA16

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If he isn't then I bet he'll have a raging hard on because he's probably turned on by the fact that you know his secret.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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