"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cinamon

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So, i went out at the weekend with some friends of mine and met this guy at the weekend. We exchanged numbers and left it at that. He texted me throughout the day yesterday and we chatted, had a laugh. So yesterday evening i get a message saying wanna chat on msn, and we logged on. He invites me to his webcam session. Over the course of the next hour, he stripped out of womens panties, masturbated, used various objects to penetrate his ass then jerked till he came. I'd only met him two days before and I know his mates, why would he do something like that. I enjoyed watching him, but i could have downloaded it or circulated it to his friends. I wont, cuz i dont do stuff like that, but some people are so stupid, or just dont care.

The thing is, if you are that desperate to do something like that, the least you should do is make sure you dont get your face in, you never know when it will catch up with you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jophil28

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Cinamon said:
So, i went out at the weekend with some friends of mine and met this guy at the weekend. We exchanged numbers and left it at that. He texted me throughout the day yesterday and we chatted, had a laugh. So yesterday evening i get a message saying wanna chat on msn, and we logged on. He invites me to his webcam session. Over the course of the next hour, he stripped out of womens panties, masturbated, used various objects to penetrate his ass then jerked till he came. I'd only met him two days before and I know his mates, why would he do something like that. I enjoyed watching him, but i could have downloaded it or circulated it to his friends. I wont, cuz i dont do stuff like that, but some people are so stupid, or just dont care.

The thing is, if you are that desperate to do something like that, the least you should do is make sure you dont get your face in, you never know when it will catch up with you.
Guys like that are hard to find. Don't forget about us when you are sending out the wedding invitations.
He sounds like a catch.
 

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He may have heard or got the impression that you're a bit of a sex freak, hence his... err ... "curious" behaviour. Otherwise I can't imagine someone doing that.
 

Cinamon

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Schwank said:
He may have heard or got the impression that you're a bit of a sex freak, hence his... err ... "curious" behaviour. Otherwise I can't imagine someone doing that.
lol. Do you know what, I enjoy that kind of "curious" behaviour, but only after gentle encouragement. I dont appreciate things you dont work for. Now, if he were reluctant at first, and then agreed we'd be talking.

I wonder if he will be the least bit phased by it when we meet next... f we do.
 

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If he isn't then I bet he'll have a raging hard on because he's probably turned on by the fact that you know his secret.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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