qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Funniest quote of the day
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wear a Suit
- Thread starter syncmaster
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Funniest quote of the day
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
I wore a polo with a tie last night.
Chicks loved it
Plus it's a lot more playful than a suit - and I'm 19, **** wearing suits.
Chicks loved it
Plus it's a lot more playful than a suit - and I'm 19, **** wearing suits.
.illadelph
Don Juan
"you niggas wear suits, cos you can't dress no more"
-kanye...
i had to do it....
-kanye...
i had to do it....
Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
style is the ability to look good without looking like you are trying too hard.
I believe the subtlety is the essence of style. When it comes to Jewellry, craftsmanship takes precedence over shine. You should give the impression that your clothes are just another layer of skin to you. Your car is just a hunk of metal. Do you feel me? Its amazing how the little things catch the eye. Subtlety also suggests sophistication. An enormous gold chain with a grandfather clock for a pendant will look GHETTO.
Or you could wear a sleek gold watch.
You could wear a purple suit with a tigerstripe shirt underneath,
or you could wear a silk shirt with a few buttons undone, barely showing a chain underneath.
Peacocking to the max is okay for clubs, but for everyday life, subtlety will command greater respect.
I believe the subtlety is the essence of style. When it comes to Jewellry, craftsmanship takes precedence over shine. You should give the impression that your clothes are just another layer of skin to you. Your car is just a hunk of metal. Do you feel me? Its amazing how the little things catch the eye. Subtlety also suggests sophistication. An enormous gold chain with a grandfather clock for a pendant will look GHETTO.
Or you could wear a sleek gold watch.
You could wear a purple suit with a tigerstripe shirt underneath,
or you could wear a silk shirt with a few buttons undone, barely showing a chain underneath.
Peacocking to the max is okay for clubs, but for everyday life, subtlety will command greater respect.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
see man - thats the whole idea. How many 19 year olds wear suits. I'm 19 and i love suits... i can pull 25yo's with em easy.Originally posted by BG the HB Tamer
I wore a polo with a tie last night.
Chicks loved it
Plus it's a lot more playful than a suit - and I'm 19, **** wearing suits.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
Yeah, i can't afford them though and it really doesn't match my personality. I don't go after 25yo's anyway.
My find is from 17 to about 22. And the type of girl I want would not really go for a guy in a suit - unless it's trendy as funk.
the12thplanet
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NO NO NO
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Couldn't agree more.
I wear one frequently at clubs and I'm 20.
Sometimes women will approach you and ask you why you're wearing a suit. Be honest. Tell them "I like to look good".
I vary my style somewhat though.
Full suit with white shirt and tie I don't do too often. Looks too funeral like.
Fashionable clubbing shirt with suit jacket + trousers, with or without tie is good.
I also like a fairly plain white shirt with perhaps stripes on with a couple of buttons on.
For slightly more casual go with smart jeans.
Suit jacket, t-shirt and jeans is NOT a look that I go for. It makes you look like an emo ****head in most circumstances.
Actually I need jewellery - anyone any advice?
I wear one frequently at clubs and I'm 20.
Sometimes women will approach you and ask you why you're wearing a suit. Be honest. Tell them "I like to look good".
I vary my style somewhat though.
Full suit with white shirt and tie I don't do too often. Looks too funeral like.
Fashionable clubbing shirt with suit jacket + trousers, with or without tie is good.
I also like a fairly plain white shirt with perhaps stripes on with a couple of buttons on.
For slightly more casual go with smart jeans.
Suit jacket, t-shirt and jeans is NOT a look that I go for. It makes you look like an emo ****head in most circumstances.
Actually I need jewellery - anyone any advice?
i went to a social this weekend... i was pimping in my suit.. i got ALOT of eye contacts from ppl
check out this pic
not bad for a 15 year old eh
IM THE ONE IN THE BLUE
Most people will disagree with my style.. i dont care if you dont like it. its my own style i love it, and i will not change it for others
check out this pic
not bad for a 15 year old eh
IM THE ONE IN THE BLUE
Most people will disagree with my style.. i dont care if you dont like it. its my own style i love it, and i will not change it for others
Egoist
Master Don Juan
holy crap i dont know where to start with this.Originally posted by sexy_kuta
i went to a social this weekend... i was pimping in my suit.. i got ALOT of eye contacts from ppl
check out this pic
not bad for a 15 year old eh
IM THE ONE IN THE BLUE
Most people will disagree with my style.. i dont care if you dont like it. its my own style i love it, and i will not change it for others
lets just say people were staring at you because you look like an idiot in it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
the12thplanet
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a bit harsh but yeah, theres no point wearing a suit if your going to wear it so sloppily.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
ok, well i guess you can put on a clown nose and a cape and call it your own style as well.
the12thplanet
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he's only 15, im sure in a few years he'll realize how bad it looks and he'll start wearing his suit with some sense of style.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.