"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wear a Suit

qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by SlowBurn
All this stacks up to stuffing a bible sized hunka chunka wallet into the right rear pocket of your oh so well tailored Brioni 4 button suit. Heck, swing around fast enough you could take out pedestrians.

Funniest quote of the day :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"you niggas wear suits, cos you can't dress no more"
-kanye...

i had to do it....
 

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style is the ability to look good without looking like you are trying too hard.

I believe the subtlety is the essence of style. When it comes to Jewellry, craftsmanship takes precedence over shine. You should give the impression that your clothes are just another layer of skin to you. Your car is just a hunk of metal. Do you feel me? Its amazing how the little things catch the eye. Subtlety also suggests sophistication. An enormous gold chain with a grandfather clock for a pendant will look GHETTO.

Or you could wear a sleek gold watch.
You could wear a purple suit with a tigerstripe shirt underneath,
or you could wear a silk shirt with a few buttons undone, barely showing a chain underneath.

Peacocking to the max is okay for clubs, but for everyday life, subtlety will command greater respect.
 

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Originally posted by BG the HB Tamer
I wore a polo with a tie last night.

Chicks loved it :)


Plus it's a lot more playful than a suit - and I'm 19, **** wearing suits.
see man - thats the whole idea. How many 19 year olds wear suits. I'm 19 and i love suits... i can pull 25yo's with em easy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BG the HB Tamer

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Originally posted by syncmaster
see man - thats the whole idea. How many 19 year olds wear suits. I'm 19 and i love suits... i can pull 25yo's with em easy.
Yeah, i can't afford them though and it really doesn't match my personality. I don't go after 25yo's anyway.

My find is from 17 to about 22. And the type of girl I want would not really go for a guy in a suit - unless it's trendy as funk.
 

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Couldn't agree more.

I wear one frequently at clubs and I'm 20.

Sometimes women will approach you and ask you why you're wearing a suit. Be honest. Tell them "I like to look good".

I vary my style somewhat though.

Full suit with white shirt and tie I don't do too often. Looks too funeral like.

Fashionable clubbing shirt with suit jacket + trousers, with or without tie is good.

I also like a fairly plain white shirt with perhaps stripes on with a couple of buttons on.

For slightly more casual go with smart jeans.



Suit jacket, t-shirt and jeans is NOT a look that I go for. It makes you look like an emo ****head in most circumstances.



Actually I need jewellery - anyone any advice?
 

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i went to a social this weekend... i was pimping in my suit.. i got ALOT of eye contacts from ppl



check out this pic
not bad for a 15 year old eh




IM THE ONE IN THE BLUE

Most people will disagree with my style.. i dont care if you dont like it. its my own style i love it, and i will not change it for others
 

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Originally posted by sexy_kuta
i went to a social this weekend... i was pimping in my suit.. i got ALOT of eye contacts from ppl



check out this pic
not bad for a 15 year old eh




IM THE ONE IN THE BLUE

Most people will disagree with my style.. i dont care if you dont like it. its my own style i love it, and i will not change it for others
holy crap i dont know where to start with this.

lets just say people were staring at you because you look like an idiot in it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the12thplanet

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Originally posted by Egoist
holy crap i dont know where to start with this.

lets just say people were staring at you because you look like an idiot in it.
a bit harsh but yeah, theres no point wearing a suit if your going to wear it so sloppily.
 

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like i said

its my own style u can like it or not

did i not state that?

no one is the same

your opinion has no effect on me
 

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Originally posted by sexy_kuta
like i said

its my own style u can like it or not

did i not state that?

no one is the same

your opinion has no effect on me


ok, well i guess you can put on a clown nose and a cape and call it your own style as well.
 

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Originally posted by Egoist
ok, well i guess you can put on a clown nose and a cape and call it your own style as well.
i been looking for a big size cape.. i cant find one you know where i can get one?
 

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he's only 15, im sure in a few years he'll realize how bad it looks and he'll start wearing his suit with some sense of style.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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