"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Weapons Of Mass Seduction

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superb fingerz :rockon:
Nice of you to take the time and effort to people you don't even know. Your writing style with humour really hits me well, great stuff. Im starting this tommoro:rock:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BUMP

Time to re-read the most helpful collection of posts I've ever set eyes on.
 

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They should re-sticky this one for all the retards who can't seem to find the DJB link at the top of every page.

BUMP!
 

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bump.....classic post...and real....no doubt....

still learing everyday....

takin thinks one at a time...fa realz....

holla....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Señor Fingers
Preface
The core of your seductive abilities is not made up of a system of techniques. It begins with you!

Destroying Social Phobias - Awaken your social self.
Authentic Confidence - Discover your Full Potential
Essence of Alpha - Master Your Evolution.

Contents
I recommend reading these in the order given because there are lots of cross-references. There is a lot of info to digest here, so take baby steps. Spend a few weeks practicing one thing at a time. If you try to tackle all the techniques at once, you won't learn jack sh!t.

1. Empower Your Voice
2. Mastering Body Language
3. Boosting Mind States
4. Always Be Prepared
5. The Power of Detachment
6. Freestyling Street Approaches
7. The Art of Phone Openers
8. Becoming Magnetic
9. Building Rapport
10. Mmmm...Sensuality
11. Hitting the Clubs
12. Seducing the Party Girl
13. Seducing the Nice Girl
14. Conversation with an AFC
15. Mad Props

Epilogue
I mess up a lot. Check out some of my Crash & Burn tales and learn what not to do!
Epic Tale of Transformation <--Props to MOTU for the excellent breakdown
Evil Bit¢h Shields! <--Props to Umbra for setting me straight





This IS the freakin' bible!


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Printed it all...Started to read it. This is so good. :woo:
Can't wait to apply what I read.
 

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Fu-ck me sideways man this is the best series of posts ive read and ive just started reading it.

Someone please sticky this !!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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amazzzing... have readed every post, and it blows me awaym it have helped me alot with my DJing


greatstuff man;)
 

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Senor Fingers thank you so much, i love this guide and its so realistic, funny and whatnot, i've actually field tested some stuff (you owe me a wild applause :p lol) and i'll write some reports when i get the time, thanks for everything :D!. I'll prolly e-mail you or something i want to meet the person who wrote such a wonderful thing :) well g2g to a party maybe i'll apply more stuff here, goodbye man thanks for everything.
 

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Guys, you haven't read the DJB have you? This post is a staple of the bible and it can be downloaded!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rint

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Dude **** ur my role model. Everyone of ur post touched me Fingers. **** UR THE MAN
 

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not bad, well actually it's just ok..


haha j.k! Great post! I'm just starting to read it and have applied a few lessons already. The one about starting a conversation and how you can turn "how's the weather" staters into a endless conversation experience.

Great job Fingers!:up:
 

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i will take the challenge because i am too addicted to these three (videogames, PC, TV)
I even think your posts are better than anything pook has written ( old testament new testament?;) ) not because the messages was different it was because you delivered it some other way WITH examples ( Party girl, Nice girl )

Just hope you will write moar!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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