"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Weak party/club game. What's up?

Dingo

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Are you drinking ?.... If you are... maybe what you think as being the "life of the party" might just be seen as the silly drunk hipster guy.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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djthiago1

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Glasses + beard are probably not helping you, in general. So I would guess just on looks your brother attracts a broader group, i.e. more women.

Also, while it's good to be the life of the party it sounds like you're perhaps trying too hard to do so and coming across a bit desperate for approval?
The beard is very recent.


Growing a beard tripled my success with women. Hides my ****ty chin. I remember the night I had a drunken hook-up with this chick from my social circle and she was tugging on my beard and making really lustful noises. There are some girls that don't like beards. Girls that don't like MEN.
I've just recently let it grow. I'm still seeing if it works for me. but i did get a girl the first time i went out since.
 

djthiago1

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Are you drinking ?.... If you are... maybe what you think as being the "life of the party" might just be seen as the silly drunk hipster guy.....
I drink very little. I never get drunk.
 
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