"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Weak party/club game. What's up?

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Are you drinking ?.... If you are... maybe what you think as being the "life of the party" might just be seen as the silly drunk hipster guy.....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Glasses + beard are probably not helping you, in general. So I would guess just on looks your brother attracts a broader group, i.e. more women.

Also, while it's good to be the life of the party it sounds like you're perhaps trying too hard to do so and coming across a bit desperate for approval?
The beard is very recent.


Growing a beard tripled my success with women. Hides my ****ty chin. I remember the night I had a drunken hook-up with this chick from my social circle and she was tugging on my beard and making really lustful noises. There are some girls that don't like beards. Girls that don't like MEN.
I've just recently let it grow. I'm still seeing if it works for me. but i did get a girl the first time i went out since.
 

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Are you drinking ?.... If you are... maybe what you think as being the "life of the party" might just be seen as the silly drunk hipster guy.....
I drink very little. I never get drunk.
 
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