"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Weak convo one day, IOI's another.. your read?

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Thomas94305

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Guys,

There's two different gals I've convo'd with briefly in the past few weeks. Just introduction and fluff. Was not stimulating, so I ejected. In fact, more than not stimulating, both seemed disinterested after some convo. But, I run across each about 2x a week since then. Both cases, they are giving me eye contact. I don't look first. They just give me a stare, our eyes meet, or I'll get a body scan from them. The EC happens maybe 30-50% of the time I run into them, that is, that I notice. Perhaps I'm getting looked at a little more.

What is this? They showing interest to know me? Or do they just want attention as a lot of women/people do without wanting to give in return?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No idea mate. Could it be that they are not sure whether or not they know you or not? I get that occasionally, if I think I know somebody then I will just look at somebody for a while, maybe they cant place you.
 
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