"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Weak convo one day, IOI's another.. your read?

Thomas94305

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Guys,

There's two different gals I've convo'd with briefly in the past few weeks. Just introduction and fluff. Was not stimulating, so I ejected. In fact, more than not stimulating, both seemed disinterested after some convo. But, I run across each about 2x a week since then. Both cases, they are giving me eye contact. I don't look first. They just give me a stare, our eyes meet, or I'll get a body scan from them. The EC happens maybe 30-50% of the time I run into them, that is, that I notice. Perhaps I'm getting looked at a little more.

What is this? They showing interest to know me? Or do they just want attention as a lot of women/people do without wanting to give in return?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CrunchyNut

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No idea mate. Could it be that they are not sure whether or not they know you or not? I get that occasionally, if I think I know somebody then I will just look at somebody for a while, maybe they cant place you.
 
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