"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Weak convo one day, IOI's another.. your read?

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Thomas94305

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Guys,

There's two different gals I've convo'd with briefly in the past few weeks. Just introduction and fluff. Was not stimulating, so I ejected. In fact, more than not stimulating, both seemed disinterested after some convo. But, I run across each about 2x a week since then. Both cases, they are giving me eye contact. I don't look first. They just give me a stare, our eyes meet, or I'll get a body scan from them. The EC happens maybe 30-50% of the time I run into them, that is, that I notice. Perhaps I'm getting looked at a little more.

What is this? They showing interest to know me? Or do they just want attention as a lot of women/people do without wanting to give in return?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No idea mate. Could it be that they are not sure whether or not they know you or not? I get that occasionally, if I think I know somebody then I will just look at somebody for a while, maybe they cant place you.
 
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