"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Weak but the same time not?

FiNs2BeCaUgHt

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Hey guys I dont understand this.
I play football for my school and is known for being real good at it..
The thing is that I am one of the lowest on the charts for benching..
I can barely hit 220(im 16)
Though i am the most agressive and one of the MOSt feared on the team.
I just dont understand why I can barely lift 200 and going against one of my team mates that is 6'2 benching 315 and control him like its nothing..(im outside linebacker)
Is it just that my body isnt grown for benching? Weak chest?
Please give me solutions or guesses of what my problem is,Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Throttle

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bench is overrated in all aspects, most guys spend too much time working it up and as you point out yourself, it's not hurting your ability to do what you want in football.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mrRuckus

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Football is lower body dominate. Chest will help you block or get through a block but it mostly is going to depend on hips, legs, leverage, and technique. Oh, and sheer will power to beat your man. When i played hockey i beat a lot of much larger guys because i have more of a junkyard dog mentality while they often were a bit fruity and were scared to use their size advantage... or were just plain lazy.

Did you know that NFL linebackers (LINEBACKERS) have on average a higher vertical jump than NBA players? - all those squats and power movements
 
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