"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Weak but the same time not?

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FiNs2BeCaUgHt

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Hey guys I dont understand this.
I play football for my school and is known for being real good at it..
The thing is that I am one of the lowest on the charts for benching..
I can barely hit 220(im 16)
Though i am the most agressive and one of the MOSt feared on the team.
I just dont understand why I can barely lift 200 and going against one of my team mates that is 6'2 benching 315 and control him like its nothing..(im outside linebacker)
Is it just that my body isnt grown for benching? Weak chest?
Please give me solutions or guesses of what my problem is,Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Throttle

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bench is overrated in all aspects, most guys spend too much time working it up and as you point out yourself, it's not hurting your ability to do what you want in football.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Football is lower body dominate. Chest will help you block or get through a block but it mostly is going to depend on hips, legs, leverage, and technique. Oh, and sheer will power to beat your man. When i played hockey i beat a lot of much larger guys because i have more of a junkyard dog mentality while they often were a bit fruity and were scared to use their size advantage... or were just plain lazy.

Did you know that NFL linebackers (LINEBACKERS) have on average a higher vertical jump than NBA players? - all those squats and power movements
 
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